Nostr

Who else thinks being a nice guys is a defensive mechanism?

I knew a guy who was a nice guy who did not provide much value. He later cheated on his girlfriend.

He lost his nice guy status and got exiled. All of sudden, he is now that fat loser with the bum job. hmm interesting.

#asknostr

it depends. i guess it could be—like a deep need for approval..?

but a lot of "nice guys" are only nice to get something out of it. if they get told "no," they become not so "nice."

what do you mean by defensive mechanism?

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There niceness is not geninue it's a means of survival.

oooooh

that makes perfect sense