I wonder if the relays have to agree to host your follows on your Nsec. So if you are connected to 3 relays, and all three don't like 1 NPUB that you follow, perhaps it looks like it disappears from your follows? Idk
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Hmm. Idk. But I've been laxidaisical (uhh.. autocorrect ain't helping on that one) with my startos relay, which is probably almost certainly not on. That might be it then
Just speculation on my side, but now you have me wondering where the list of people that we follow is stored with NSEC. Is it part of the cryptography miracle of NPUB/Nsec or something else.
Can't be. I know next to nothing about it and will proceed with conviction, har har har. I'm guessing its in your client and some relays keep lists for you. But Idk what the relays actually do, or why I should designate relays for some tasks but not all tasks, or how I would know which to designate. All quite arcane, imo.
I could say the word too, but I couldn't spell it either...
IMO that spelling is wrong too. Dictionaries always trying to change words...