Me embracing the new wave from #Bluesky and casually trying to entice OF girls to use Nostr.

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Are the bluesky ppl coming over because they were banned on bluesky or is there a relay bridging nostr and the protocol bluesky uses?

be the bridge you want to see in the world

I honestly don't know why. But it makes sense to me. Sex workers are shit on constantly by centralized platforms. They need Bitcoin and Nostr too.

Because bluesky is kinda annoying tbh!

Plz explain

Always some nonsense happening & everyone on the site has to be involved thereโ€™s no escaping the current drama topic ever

There's no escaping the garlic around here ๐Ÿง„

Iโ€™m a garlic girl (idk what garlic means on here)

It's a random meme that popped up a few days ago ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

I luv garlic ๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ

๐Ÿง„ is typically about as dramatic as it gets around here.

I wouldโ€™ve believe you til this lady is calling me and my friends gross and disgusting haha

I know who you're talking abt. It's ok just mute them if you like and that ends that. They are one of the few trolls that hang out around here.

It's an AI generated face. Like, c'mon, try harder.

True lmfao ๐Ÿ˜ญ drive me nuts

I saw. I would just mute and move on. Mute means that they can still say what they want and you get to see the feed of content that you want. Both people win.

Imo it does suck to know that there will be harassment visible under our posts for other viewers who donโ€™t have them muted yet :/ makes it a tough space to be in

we prefer not to roam in our cage

I dunno what that means xD

Me either. But Signal is a smart guy, so I agree with it ๐Ÿ˜‚

think of a lion

safe at the zoo or out on the Sahara

some people want the zoo, but as we found out with Twitter and now Bluesky, itโ€™s really fucking hard to build a zoo without the lions attacking the zoo keepers

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Eventually the negativity falls into the shadows. You either embrace the ๐Ÿค™๐Ÿป๐Ÿซ‚ or no ๐Ÿ’œโšก

The vast majority of people here are happy to just let you be you.

Plus, your followed can mute them too. Hell, if you want, you can even share your mute list as all lists are public. Check out listr.lol

Well said ๐Ÿ‘

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Perfectly said Derek ๐Ÿค™๐Ÿซ‚

part of not being censored means not censoring others. without this, the liberty of choice we desire does not exist.

Itโ€™s less about censorship for me as much as itโ€™s about boundaries with the ability to remove myself from others, yk?

but it does suck sometimes ๐Ÿคท.

price paid.

This is where relays will come in. Especially paid relays.

:3 Iโ€™m excited to learn more about that

Relays can be moderated.

And typically a paywall for a certain topic relay would eliminate the trolling however whoever runs the relay can absolute negate a bad actor

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We are early. Enjoy. ๐Ÿค™๐Ÿป

As a content creator, you could run a relay specifically for you and your followers and content. You only post certain notes to your paid relay. Boom, no need for OF.

But what about the middleman Derek! They need their easy money!

Welcome to the Rabbit Hole of Opportunity where the free market shines.

My relay is unmoderated. Feel free to use it. ๐Ÿ˜Ž

wss://nostr.coinfundit.com

Thank you ๐Ÿ˜Š

Is there anywhere online that doesnโ€™t have that lol? The point is on nostr you actually have full control of what you see, and the tools for controlling this will only get better with time.

Clients can block users outright. The people in charge will have to block a certain amount or people will simply move to a client which provides a friendlier environment. It is like your local bar!

I think I muted the same person ๐Ÿ˜ณ

Probably, they were going wild with insults for no reason

Only person I insult nowadays is myself. All others get none of my energy other than a block or a mute.

For real? Well, wellโ€ฆ as Derek says, mute and move on, no need to waste your time playing silly games.

Accurate ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

Yes... Whale garlic is super dramatic :)

Trust me bruv

Blowholes and spice ๐ŸคŒ๐Ÿฝ

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I'm not a Bluesky user. Can you explain some issues? This is how we make Nostr better ๐Ÿซ‚

Iโ€™d love to see a place where we listen more & not all yell at each other! But that may just be internet lol

Honestly, that doesn't happen here. It's because of Zaps. This incentivizes good content and ๐Ÿค™๐Ÿป๐Ÿซ‚

If you're a troll or a dick, you will only get Zaps from other trolls or dicks.

Most humans just want to get along.

Love to hear it ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿป I can see how the zap culture promotes friendliness

Not decentralized

No zaps

No fun

True

bluesky is basically mastodon

Iโ€™ve never been on mastodon but they sound pretty different to me

you can access them the fedi here with the mostr.pub relay which bridges nostr to the fedi, they have 13million users

Is that something one would want to do

i cant know your desires but most people would want access to more people than on nostr, for me without mostr.pub nostr is just zap and bitcoin spam

I thought Bluesky used AT protocol which is a different thing?

its basically the same, they seem to have remade activitypub because they cant have original ideas, and want to use nostr:npub1cu4488qkpp3lzquazmcfqwuuma0mk4lrhpm3fykct3xu7hkck5ts5as87d s money

That is the wrong jack brother

lovely amethyst sucks at finding him

i use relay.mostr.pub sorry

There really isnโ€™t any difference between how bluesky and fedi work.

Not really. They use different protocols afaik

no the protocols are quite similar

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Imagine a social network where you can only invite four friends a month and everyoneโ€™s first instinct is to block you if you look at them funny.

That doesn't sound very social. Fuck that.

Iโ€™m pretty cautious with blocks but many are the opposite lol

And they have mute lists, so basically you can get thrown in the gulag for any reason and others will just subscribe to them so they never see your posts.

None of us were banned. Just sick of the drama over there + they have dril now

whatโ€™s dril ?

Who the fuckkk is Dril

exactly

lol is it a person ? Or a feature ?

I think I found drilโ€ฆ

Now I get it ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ

Mmhmm

Confirmed

What ways is it dramatic there?

So much to explain. This is one of the things, but there are other things as well https://www.wired.com/story/reddit-bluesky-moderation/

Basically if the whole site is in turmoil, you can't really remove yourself and be in a different subject either

There is also mass censorship of the female body vs men. A man can have legs spread, with tiny underwear that shows up on main feed. Vs we being fully clothed and it is labelled sexual or suggestive

This includes pictures of fully naked men holding the head if their penis showing up on main feed not labelled. But us in tank top, sports bras,โœจ turtle necksโœจ, and various other clothes we wear in public getting labelled as sexual and therefore censored. It's exhausting ๐Ÿคก

of*

nostr:npub1jwmlmggmtgrulpju4z7ghp2w4saywtxcwmmrkvy9fg99zwccw8nszulax5 posted the very first #nASStr pic a few months ago. he didn't get banned from nostr ๐Ÿคฃ

Thank you for giving me credit!

That's messed up. Welcome to Nostr. No one cam be censored here, but you can also decide what you want to see! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿค™

Messed up?

Itโ€™s disgusting.

Oh i agree. Sounds like surpressing women but allowing gay content to spread wild. Gross.

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tbh i added my pub id to my bio !!

Zapped!

NOICE

OF girls attract a certain kind of demographic with a ton of disposable income #JustSaying

What happened

Bluesky OF wave. They banded together and moved as one.

swarmed & baited...

what a disappointment

Theyโ€™re getting censored over there

Is that what they call disrupting federal services nowadays?

This is actually so true lol

We are not really. The app has just been collapsing on itself, no one can work in that climate, so weโ€™re coming back to the sources

Oh okay I mustโ€™ve misheard

itโ€™s not completely untrue either i think the whole ecosystem there just got too big too quick and need to sort shit out

The nature of it will never allow for true freedom

I honestly don't know. They mentioned someone getting banned for content and then a dozen or so OF / sex workers started creating Nostr profiles. I'd love to know the whole story too.

nostr:npub1mrvra20whxj66gn5syp75n3nzq6cdydnes5msnan3uupef33q7cslndald nostr:npub1lj7k87jwg7s0hnl20tjksv2qfhmz2v0rx9lhwx9e69pqllw7w64seyx6hf can you fill us in?

yeah totes ! so uh dril pissed off a bunch of the bsky baddies a while back because of some dumb and bad jokes abt sex workers that affected our livelihood. yday he started actually posting there. one of my friends did a riff off a running meme & dril posted a screenshot && it kicked off a day full of harassment & anti-sex work sentiment. so a lot of us migrated/branched out. and they recently kinda shat the bed moderation-wise as well :////

also hi jack you are responsible for three of my favorite websites

i promise we arent as Drama as this perhaps makes us sound

like personally i came here to Leave the Drama, i have no intention of starting any. gonna keep it chill

no one likes drama, but we also understand that everyone has bad days.

just think "pura vida" it's a way of life here.

yeah. i consider like. Drama to be the pointless kind of thing. not like what happens when bad days happen, emotions get high, people clash, etc etc etc

I wouldnโ€™t even put it down to this lol

fair point i just picked the most proximate cause

other issues include: sexist AI image labeling, canโ€™t get on whatโ€™s hot, mutelists

did i miss anything

like thats why i dipped for a bit was the stuff yesterday, but yeah its been. ramping up

dril did WHAT? nahhhh why does he hate us

Weโ€™ve working hard on helping build bsky and just seeing what else is out there too ๐Ÿ˜‰

yes !!

Well, Nostr is all about ๐Ÿซ‚ and ๐Ÿค™๐Ÿป followed by lots of โšก and ๐Ÿ’œ as you see.

yeah it seems really nice !!

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Well Iโ€™m sure you gals will slay wherever you ๐Ÿ to. Enjoy the new ๐ŸŒŒโ˜ฎ๏ธ so much work ๐Ÿฅต but worth it! ๐Ÿซ‚

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I think someone made an account with the n word in their name and a bunch of ppl had a meltdown, so they added a word filter.

And also some racial problems there which are not censored and community don't like it.

Hi Jack ๐Ÿค™ just a bunch of us checking things out over here and seeing what else is going on in the space :)

Jack is getting the cheap greedy whores hopes up ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

when the crossword police have no one but themselves to talk to, even they get sick of their own shit. lord of the flies.

This platform hosts whores / prostitutes now?!?! .

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Thank you. Thatโ€™s the first hug Iโ€™ve received hereโ€ฆa hug in response to your hosting prostitutes!!

Me and my pink bunny (see profile pic) were just about to leave ๐Ÿ˜‚. We are too innocent to be around whores.

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Nah. More like horny for growing Nostr? Yes.