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Finding a partner in life seems such a paradox...

1. Make an active efford and it won't happen because you're looking for it.

2. Don't make efford because 'it will happen when you won't expect it'

1. Feels like wasting energy.

2. Feels like giving up, trusting faith, risking to be alone forever.

It seems to be the problem in life I can least control.
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SGT.FISH 2y ago

To me being able to enjoy life on your own is step 1 to meeting the one to share it with.

Personally whouldnt see it as giving up but as working towards self acceptance and love

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Jeroen ✅ 2y ago

I get what your saying, def true, and I do enjoy life a lot on my own.

Just had enough sitting in this appartment by myself while it's quiet with nobody to talk to for days on end, looking at the fucking walls 🥲

Don't think most people can love themselves to the point where it's ok to go through life solitary.

More irl frens I can hang out with would help a lot also 😅

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50c5c98c... 2y ago

Friends will introduce you to new people too!

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liminal 🦠 2y ago

Frens are also there to help you not feel alone 🫂. Feel free to reach out 🫶

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SGT.FISH 2y ago

What he said 🫂

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Rustypuppy 2y ago

I believe shared interests is the best path for something that lasts. Being actively involved IRL or online in a community connects you to other individuals that have at least that much in common with you which is a place to start.

I hope you find someone who values you. 🫂💜