Finding a partner in life seems such a paradox...
1. Make an active efford and it won't happen because you're looking for it.
2. Don't make efford because 'it will happen when you won't expect it'
1. Feels like wasting energy.
2. Feels like giving up, trusting faith, risking to be alone forever.
It seems to be the problem in life I can least control.
It DOES feel like it's a waste of time and effort.
You are far better off dedicating that love you wish to share, on yourself.
Grow yourself
Build yourself
Prepare for love when it happens.
Just as we prepare for rough parts of life, prepare for the good.
This 100% learn to be okay with yourself and the life you life. Holding on to a particular outcome changes how you behave, but also subliminally changes the conditions of success (for example the goal of relationship over your own happiness).
If you approach these interactions as just an opportunity to know someone as an individual person better (rather than meeting with the goal of an evaluation), it doesn't matter if they are relationship material because you've gotten to know a new person which is itself an amazing opportunity.
I'll repeat, you're doing great. No need to worry, just take things as they come 🫂🌞
This is great advice and great example of cognitive reframing. You gave #[2]#[2]#[2]#[2] a free therapy session.
Do your own thing … the rest will follow … 🙂
To me being able to enjoy life on your own is step 1 to meeting the one to share it with.
Personally whouldnt see it as giving up but as working towards self acceptance and love
I get what your saying, def true, and I do enjoy life a lot on my own.
Just had enough sitting in this appartment by myself while it's quiet with nobody to talk to for days on end, looking at the fucking walls 🥲
Don't think most people can love themselves to the point where it's ok to go through life solitary.
More irl frens I can hang out with would help a lot also 😅
I believe shared interests is the best path for something that lasts. Being actively involved IRL or online in a community connects you to other individuals that have at least that much in common with you which is a place to start.
I hope you find someone who values you. 🫂💜
Young men should focus on building themselves instead of seeking a woman.
When you begin to achieve success, your aura will signal to women that you have the potential to support a life, family, and beyond.
Put you first, everything else will fall in place.
#MasculineFrame
Grandes frases ✨✨🫶💜
Por suerte encontré mi compañera de vida
You say it yourself: "Trusting Faith"
Work on what you can control (you) and your faith. Your blessings will be abundant.
