Not a bad place to start.

If you want to keep continue....

Do your values overlap?

Do your dreams for future overlap?

Do your deal makers and deal breakers overlap?

Can and will you leave people and each other better than you found out them?

Does your linguistic style match? (Your Intuitive words with her intuitive words, or your sensory words with her sensory words)

Does your spirituality overlap?

Does the 70-80% you admire and appreciate and love about each other, enable you to accept the other 20-30% you don't love? Or not?

Are you forthright?

Do you both speak the truth kindly?

Do you both practice secret minimization in a every area of life? (You're only as sick your secrets)

Do you both have healthy and functional boundaries?

Can you say an honest yes or no?

Do you enjoy each other's company?

Do you enjoy interacting?

Do you want to get a PhD in her personaltiy, who she is, and how she works?

Do you both value honoring yourselves, each other, and other people?

Do you foster a forgiving, compassionate, non punishment culture around yourselves?

This is a good place to start and continue with a potential helpmate.

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