maybe.. maybe.. for DMs is not needed to use relays...
Think about holepunch for a second. that is direct p2p communication.. the problem it has is that it's difficult to find your peers first.. but maybe.. Nostr can fill that gap. I know you.. then I send you a first message that basically establishes a direct holepunch (keet type) communication and once established it's just p2p, no need for relays.. never miss a message.. fully private... using Nostr for discovery
