Marriage only works if either the state is patriarchal and thus guarantees your wife's obedience by law akin to certain Islamic countries or if you score a golden ticked and your wife turns out to be an ultra rare woman obsessed with patriarchy.

to be absolutely clear - i am NOT trying to influence your life decisions. quite the opposite - i tagged you because you previously expressed sentiment against marriage.

i do not give people advice unless i have a very high level of confidence that it will work for them. for example if i tell somebody to stay away from blacks or never trust Jews i have near 100% confidence that this advice will work out for them in the long run.

on other hand i would never advise somebody for or against marriage or buying bitcoin because there is a significant chance it will ruin their life and then they will hold me responsible for it.

from a selfish perspective i think it is good to have children - at least 3. from a moral perspective i think having children and killing children is pretty much the same thing - both equally immoral. because life is nothing more than a futile attempt to avoid death so to give life and to take it is the same thing basically.

so i also can't advise either for or against having children, whether as part of marriage or not.

as far as adoption it's the opposite - from moral perspective it is undeniably the right thing to do. but from perspective of self-interest it is quite a bad deal as it costs more and you end up with a child that will care less about you compared to having your own.

as for Elon he didn't fail in his marriages as much as he dumped those women. they still Tweet about wanting him back. but that's like saying a prostitute wants her highest paying customer back

and that was the very point of my post - that "all women are prostitutes" ( as my friend on YouTube has expressed it back when i was more active on YT ) or "all women are gold diggers" as Ed Latimore has expressed to me on Twitter ( back when it was still Twitter ). he later tried to back pedal to avoid getting banned by saying what he meant was that "No woman prefers a broke man" but he did in fact say that "All women are gold diggers" and, he is 100% right.

so if you're a billionaire with a pre-nup your wife will never leave you because a woman always follows the money - if you have money and she can't divorce-rape you because of a pre-nup she isn't going anywhere until you decided to replace her. this is how Elon and Trump do it. but you need to be rich for this.

as for your last point about being able to get a hot girl - to me marriage has nothing to do with sex or getting a hot girl.

marriage is STRICTLY for children. there can not be any other reason to get married. if marriage helps you get more sex it is purely going to be sex with OTHER women who are into married men.

conservative pundits ( like the ones from Daily Wire ) like to bring up statistics that married men are happier and have more sex than men who aren't married. that is 100% true. but it has nothing to do with being married.

this is like saying there is more disease in Africa than Europe because Africans are not as widely vaccinated as Europeans. THIS IS LAUGHABLE.

the reason Europeans have less disease is because it's a more advanced society overall. Europeans wash their hands with anti-bacterial soap while Africans shit on the beach and rape goats to cure AIDS. it has nothing to do with vaccines.

same for marriage. the reason Married men are happier and have more sex is because successful men are happier and have more sex and women only marry successful men. then divorce the man if he stops being successful.

believing that marrying a woman will make you happier is like believing that playing basketball will make you taller. it is the exact opposite - you are signed by NBA *because* you are tall and you are seduced by women *because* you have your life in order.

no woman ever sees a junkie in a ditch and goes "he's cute, i will seduce him and make him my husband" - NO WOMAN EVER.

instead this is what women do:

pictured above is Harvey Weinstein with his wife. she knew he was the most notorious rapist in Hollywood, but also one of the richest and most powerful men in Hollywood as well and to a woman only the second part counts. she didn't care that he was literally the most disgusting creature in America both physically and in terms of his behavior ( serial rapist ). all a woman cares about in a man is STATUS.

and of course when Harvey went to prison she divorced him and is now dating Adrien Brody

she will claim of course she divorced Harvey because she "found out" about him being a serial rapist. but reality is of course everybody in Hollywood knew. she divorced Harvey because he lost his STATUS.

she was married to Harvey when his status as higher than her sexual market value. his status vanished when he went to prison so she simply replaced him.

as Mike Tyson said - women have no loyalty.

women are just using you until they find something better. my 1st GF said that to me in so many words - that she was just using me. she didn't say it to offend me - quite the opposite - she did it to save me. in fact at the BEGINNING of our relationship she made me promise that i didn't have feelings for her - i lied and said that i didn't. eventually she figured out that i lied because even though i never told her that i loved her she realized that i did. so she said POINT BLANK that she was just using me and started pressuring me to end the relationship, which ended about a month later or so because i was addicted to her and couldn't leave until she actually stopped putting out.

anyway, marriage is a tool that allows rich men to have children. if you're rich, want kids, and can get a hoe to sign a prenup and start popping out babies - do it. if not ? well, then you have to make your own decision - i won't make it for you.