After not surfing for 15-20 years, and now getting back into it and teaching my kids, I’ve come to understand that parenthood is a lot like surfing.

95% percent of the time your paddling, chasing, go over the top, slamming into reefs, having people drop in on you, and struggling, but when you succeed, nothing beats the ride you get to take. That 5% is worth the 95% of struggles.

I got my oldest out the back this morning and she paddled into her first unbroken wave and was able to engage a rail and cut across the face by the end our session.

Life’s a fucking struggle. Embrace it.

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That’s a beautiful analogy

Thanks. Things I was thinking about , as I dragged a 10 year old through the wash and out the back, and then to see her face beaming when she looked back at the end 💜🫂.

I may have surfed for the last time. At 60 ,I just don't have the desire. Hiking a new trail with my wife seems to fill the void. It's something we can do together. I do still have surfing dreams from time to time. Enjoy this time with your kids. Great memories for all involved.

Yeah, it’s been frustrating at times for myself because my body hasn’t been able to keep up with the memories I have. I swear kids, I used to be pretty average 😂. Not quite as flexible as I used to be.

But, being out there with kids, teaching them all the different things they need to know to catch a wave and relearning what I can do in middle age, has presented new challenges and a renewed passion.

Enjoy the hikes King Bee!

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Nice! I can’t wait to take my future children surfing!!!

It’s a lot of fun!