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The proper way to forgive parent given trauma is to overcome the consequences of their sin in your life, and then shift posture towards one of sympathy, and finally allow your heart to totally and completely forgive them.

You can't really forgive your parents until you pay down the debts that they gave you. The negative feelings will just keep recurring. You need to solve the problems they didn't or couldn't. Then you can move past it.

For example: if you had a weak dad who did not lead the household, maybe got a divorce, and projected huge ripple effects of negative consequences, then you yourself need to become a strong dad who leads.

In a way, you must become strong enough to pick up the cross they set down. Then you can move on.

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R.S. Christopher 5mo ago

“pick up the cross they set down”

Profoundly true, and the only real solution to overcoming the generational damage from the baby boomers (themselves the rotten fruit of prior generations of secular lukewarm Christians)

And it is exactly what Christ is calling us to do, through Him,

“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”

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