YOUNG MEN LET ME BE HONEST WITH YOU TODAY.

You see that girl you are dating now, she has a higher chance of making it in life faster than you.

This is why you shouldn't spend all your youthfulness building relationship with a woman.

The truth is she can easily walk out of that relationship and go ahead and marry an already made man, a man who has figured his life out, who has money and enough resources and on the strength of her marriage with the already man she has made it in life.

Whereas, you as a man is own your own, nobody is coming to save you, nobody cares about you, people don't even love you until you have value.

You see why investing all your youthfulness with a woman can be very dangerous and unhealthy for your future.

Women has more leverage early in life than man, like this like this, she's already winning you, the world is more fair to her than you and this is why you need to focus more on your purpose than you are focusing on her.

If you fail to make it in life, you will suffer in her hand, she will finally dump you for another man who didn't fail to make it.

Forget all those romantic bullishit she use to assure you " that she will be with you forever" its a lie, when jungle mature she will disappear.

The truth is most women are just managing your brokeness because they don't have a better option yet the moment a better option present itself she will abandon you and forget all your sacrifices and all her words, women knows nothing like loyalty.

This is why as a young man, you don't have to spend all your time focusing and chasing women up and down, women are big distraction to a man who is not purpose driven.

They will drain you and leave you.

Hustle for yourself, take your life more serious, read books, learn skills, develop and harness your masculine power, be more focus on becoming a better man, invest in your mind at the end of this is the only thing that will never leave you through thick and thin.

Be wise.

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Class dismissed 🥂

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meh…

my perspective

it’s actually quite simple, but it’s hard work.

if you don’t have self-confidence.

if you don’t love yourself.

If you are not constantly working on self improvement.

… it is going to be hard for others to love you.

try to be better tomorrow than you are today.

I'm sorry for the man that feels this way about women. You will never be stronger than with a woman that you can grow with. The popular culture encourages this kind of wisdom, which is precisely why the divorce rate is over 50%.

This might make sense to those with a secular worldview and judge success by the material.

For those that have an eternal perspective, you shouldn't be chasing young materialistic women at all. Nor should any young man or woman be chasing someone they aren't planning on forming eternal bonds with.

Relationships between a man and woman are of Heavenly origin and should not be taken so lightly. The powers of procreation and heavenly families are not to be used as time fillers and entertainment. They are sacred. You are not just looking for a partner, or a girlfriend. You are looking for a mother, and a co-creator. You are looking for a feminine energy to compliment your masculine. The two become one flesh. You are creating a bloodline.

The woman that behaves in the way described is not a woman at all. She doesn't know her own value or self worth. She is just as broken and lost as the young man that chases her. Neither fulfilling their purpose. Both looking to the other to fill a void. In that sense, I agree. It's treating people and relationships like a drug to pacify the pain of a broken existence. When a better high comes along, the other will wonder.

Thank you for typing this all out for me. Haha. Followed.

When a reply is better then the original post ...

lol now this is funny

It’s just your opinion lol 😂

Someone else has a better perspective

Most women in the states are either dumb, not physically attractive, have someone else’s kids, the list goes on.

There are very few unicorns out there. Love, capitalism, but it has contributed to broken relationships.

I know I’m a stud. 50+ percent or more of these girls wind up divorced, with kids, and suck at life.

Let them suck.

Stack sats and chillax.

I have a plan in the next five years to likely leave the country. I was a male model for three years traveling internationally. The coolest girls I’ve ever met are foreign to the states.

this makes it sound like all women are cut throat gold diggers. this doesn’t really ring true to me. i know of many long-time married couples with kids who have been together since a very young age when the man had literally nothing. some even since high school.

better advice might be to make sure you know how to properly choose the right woman.

why married is the end of all gaol ? I don't get it.

Nice generalization amigo. Sounds more to me like half wisdom tales mixed with a broken heart.