I'm sad. My only other "stay at home mom" friend just started sending her 2yo to daycare.... God I dislike modern women
She literally said he is too clingy and needs to be around others...
...like wtf it's your babu 😑
Everyone has sh¡t for brains
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She stays at home and takes her child to day care??? 😂 she needs her quality time scrolling her phone it must be 😂
Dude it's so retarded, and not even like 2 days a week... Full time 5 days a week for 7 hours.
Why are women like this 😵
Why don't you mind your business instead of badmouthing your "friend" online. Very uncool
An alternate thought — maybe she just wants a break from her child to take care of herself, like take a shower? The socialisation thing is a lie, of course, but could be one she tells herself to assuage her mum guilt? If she’s taken him to a good daycare and didn’t have other options eg. family close by, consider that she’s just trying to help herself find a village, even if it’s paid for. Throughout human history, motherhood was never supposed to be “done” alone; it’s a myth in the Western world today that mums have to do it in isolation, but many of us live in such individualised silos these days that services like these are the only option. If I’ve learned one thing from matrescence, it’s “put your own oxygen mask on first”.
Family is a few streets away, has more than basics covered for life, doesn't have to work, has a circle of friends and moms already, just wants her kiddo not to be clingy. But I hear what you're saying
Homeschool co-op is the answer. Kids get some exposure to other kids, mom gets a break and you’re mixing with parents that “care”
Search meetup, facebook, nextdoor, etc
Also:
Homeschool-life.com
Outschool.com
Bewildandfree.org
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Just had our first 7 months ago. My wife, he, and I flew to spend time with family for a couple of weeks and I do have to say that he really has flourished with all of his cousins and other family around. He is much more vocal, seems to be more mobile, eating a bit better, etc.
I think he was getting bored or having limited stimulus staying at home with my wife and I and occasional grandparent visits. We are thinking of some daycare once we get back home to keep the the action and engagement up until he gets a sibling.
No, she has shit for brains.
And, wow, that's sad.
He needs her and she's seemingly refusing to meet his valid needs.