yall ever bully your kids so theyβll have tough skin n wouldβve heard it all before anyone gives them any shit
or are they soft as fuck
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Looks like you've been taking advice from nostr:nprofile1qqs04neen777aqwaghf8fr5p9xey6flm5g3ykhkd066xr3tkwzthsccpzamhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgtcpzdmhxue69uhhqatjwpkx2urpvuhx2ue0qy88wumn8ghj7mn0wvhxcmmv9uyfkar0 π
πππ i was reminded of this from this stand up clip
you ever seen it?
called one a meanie butt the other day. this is apparently the worst thing you can call a kid. he may never recover π
time heals all!! π
Did you impregnated some frog over there? Preparing yourself for froddlers incoming soon?
π naah naah lmaoo a close fren of mine is expecting one soon
It's healthy sometimes... especially with boys..
I'd do that for my son because I don't want to raise a sissy
Facts and for the girls I wouldnβt go easier either, weβd want them to be brave enough to take on the world
really good ^ Ted talk that changed my whole perspective on raising a girl when I seen it like 5 years ago
SORRY wrong video link π
Gotta prepare them for the real world.
just taught them to be the bullies. I only hear from the school about once a yearβusually when an angry parent finds out one of my kids has been stealing their kidβs lunch money.
I verbally abuse them and theyβre still little pussiesβ¦ maybe I need to make another baby and try againβ¦ hmm #asknostr
Sounds like you are saying itβs better to traumatize your kids by bullying them yourself but kids will internalize that bullying and think they deserve it since their parents are doing it. That will make it less likely that they stand up to a bully in the future since they think they deserve it and theyβll actually never have tough skin. This is a bad idea. People with ptsd are not tough and do not have tough skin. Traumatizing your kids is similar to ptsd. They become emotionally unstable and have difficult relationships as adults. These are kids just be firm and consistent with them. Teach them by example and donβt spoil them.
My father used a similar approach with me. Teach me the skills i need to endure and overcome trauma rather than traumatize me himself. Traumatizing your children yourself or willfully letting them experience external trauma will just lead to them resenting you in the future. At least, that's my experience. My dad gave me hand-to-hand combat training in my teens and that had me well-prepped for my enlistment. I've now been training my daughters in a similar fashion, including firearms training. The point is not to traumatize them at such a young age, but to give them the confidence needed to survive. And yes, don't spoil them; they'll never develop any kind of moral integeity if you do.
Imagine the trauma this dude's kids suffer from having a parent so fucked up, he brags about his child abuse to his online friends, who also support him doing shit like gaslighting me about Digit being dead while she was alive the whole time