Traditional relationship advice is incredibly damaging if you are in an abusive relationship with a narcissist.
I can’t even count the amount of times I tried to apply this advice when I was in relationships with narcissists. They always used it against me to abuse me more.
It’s so important to know if you are in a toxic relationship.
If you are, then most of the relationship advice is something you definitely should not listen to. It will only make things worse.
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
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I didn't see it for a long time. I also had multiple narcissists around me that were all gaslighting me. I was very naive then. Much easier for me to see it now.
Definitely strange memorable experiences
Weird wild experiences with narcissists lying.
I could not believe, not only that they would blatantly lie to someone else for no apparent reason. But then sometimes they would tell me they were lying about it.
Seriously makes me wonder what they ever told me that was true.
I cannot understand how someone simply would not care about lying to other people on a regular basis.
Joking is one thing, but lying?! Seriously?!
Weird rant I suppose this one was.
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
Schedule a consultation through the link below.
https://KyleMillerCoaching.as.me/
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I talk about my healing to show what’s possible.
Not because I think I’m better than anyone else or for anyone to think this.
Simply because I know there is hope for everyone that wants to heal.
Even if you don’t believe it’s possible. No matter what you’ve done or you’ve been through.
It is possible for you to heal.
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
Schedule a consultation through the link below.
https://KyleMillerCoaching.as.me/
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Just a reminder to take a beak.
Make sure you take a break that recharges you rather than drains you.
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It will never be the right time to heal from narcissistic abuse. Just like there’s never a right time for us to get into these relationships.
This thought holds us back from actually moving forward in our lives.
I realize this is not what any of us wants to hear, but it’s the truth.
We are all dealing with all of these things right now, every single day.
It’s simply the question of how do you want to deal with it and how long do you want it to take?
I don’t pretend to have the right way to heal, but I have learned a way for you to heal.
It changed my life and my clients' lives as well.
Don’t wait to move forward with your life.
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
Schedule a consultation through the link below.
https://KyleMillerCoaching.as.me/
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You probably shouldn’t trust me, or anyone else for that matter, until we’ve earned it. Especially if you’ve gone through narcissistic or any other kind of abuse.
I’m not offended or hurt by this and I don’t believe that good people are either.
Trust is something that’s built and earned over time. Not just freely given.
After being in these relationships we often have a hard time trusting ourselves again. I have definitely been there.
Rebuild the trust within yourself first. Then begin trusting other people as they earn it.
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
Schedule a consultation through the link below.
https://KyleMillerCoaching.as.me/
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So many layers of forgiveness are possible.
I realize this more and more every single day.
Even though I’m the happiest and most fulfilled I’ve ever been in my life, I also continually reach a deeper level.
All of this is available for you also!
The only thing it requires is the courage to start doing the work.
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
Schedule a consultation through the link below.
https://KyleMillerCoaching.as.me/
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Lots of breakthroughs and tears over the last few weeks. Grateful for all of it.
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Allow the people in your life the opportunity and joy of being able to be there and support you.
We all beat ourselves up about being in relationships with narcissists.
We regret the wasted time in our lives.
We also often put off healing or facing what we went through.
Then we beat ourselves up for this.
Don’t wait on healing and moving forward with your life.
Give yourself the gift of having your own life again. Don’t wait!
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
Schedule a consultation through the link below.
https://KyleMillerCoaching.as.me/
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We all want the tips and advice to heal from narcissistic abuse including me.
The truth is that there’s no shortcut, tip or trick that you can do to heal.
You must face your thoughts and emotions in order for you to be able to process them.
The other hard truth is that we are all dealing with all of these things right now. We may be suppressing it with substances or distractions or trying to find another relationship. This usually keeps us stuck and not moving forward with healing.
The advice to stay busy so you don’t have to think about it does not really help with healing. Time does not heal, it simply gives us a little space from the emotional charge of the abuse.
Learning to process my thoughts and emotions changed my life beyond what I ever could have imagined. It wasn’t easy, but it wasn’t as hard as living the way that I used to.
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
Schedule a consultation through the link below.
https://KyleMillerCoaching.as.me/
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The question is, how do I tell if they are a narcissist?
We think that if we had the right information we would feel better or be able to get over them and move on.
The truth is, with all the evidence and proof and diagnosis we will often still not feel better.
This is because our minds will still be trying to make sense of how they could do this, or how or why this happened to us.
We will still be trying to process our thoughts around it. Which is the actual problem above and beyond the actual abuse itself.
Be grateful that you can’t understand how someone could do this to someone else. This is a good sign you are not a narcissist yourself.
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
Schedule a consultation through the link below.
https://KyleMillerCoaching.as.me/
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Got coaching today and I needed it!
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Don't take yourself too seriously. It's mostly just thoughts running through our minds.
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Breakthroughs are often disguised as things we beat ourselves up with.
Many times unfortunately we miss the growth or the opportunity for growth and understanding because we are so busy beating ourselves up.
The more I’ve grown and healed myself, the more happy and grateful I am when I realize something I was previously unaware of.
This is a skill and a perspective that anyone can learn and adopt for themselves.
It’s not necessarily easy, but it is simple.
Allow yourself to see the beauty in increased awareness and perspective. It will change your life if you allow it to.
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
Schedule a consultation through the link below.
https://KyleMillerCoaching.as.me/
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Don’t use your future to beat yourself up.
This is something I heard from Dan Sullivan.
So many use where we are or rather where we aren’t to beat ourselves up.
Rather than recognizing how far we’ve come and everything we’ve learned about ourselves and unfortunately about narcissism and toxic relationships.
Realize that the awareness is the most important thing.
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
Schedule a consultation through the link below.
https://KyleMillerCoaching.as.me/
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Narcissists cling to one hope - finding someone they can exploit and manipulate. It may sound harsh, but it’s often the truth.
Their plans, if you can call them that, revolve solely around satisfying their insatiable need for supply.
Personal growth or meaningful accomplishments? Nope. Those only matter if it feeds their insatiable craving for validation. đźŽđźŚź
So, what does this mean for you?
If you're no longer a reliable supply for them, they'll toss aside any plans, promises, or loyalty in search of fresh supply.
Their allegiance lies solely with their insatiable need for supply - nothing else. đź’” But here's where your power lies. Take control of your own life, your dreams, and your aspirations.
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
Schedule a consultation through the link below.
https://KyleMillerCoaching.as.me/
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Every emotion you have needs and deserves to be seen and acknowledged.
You are never wrong or bad for having any of them.
You can heal from narcissistic abuse. Learn to trust your intuition again and take your power back. You can build the life, career and relationships of your dreams. I can help. Coaching is the fastest and most effective way I’ve found to heal and move forward in your life.
Schedule a consultation through the link below.
https://KyleMillerCoaching.as.me/
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