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The spark of #attraction arises from tension between different layers of personality, particularly when some layers are instinctively grasped but not articulated.

#masculinity #feminity #passion

The opposite of coherent identities is #neurosis. This is initiated by the inability to either serve the needs of an important identity or getting lost in one particular #identity. Identity strucrures break down or contradicting identities interfere with each other leading to emotional distress.

Widespread neurosis is a phenomenon of modernity as it allowed for only by sufficient wealth and individual liberty. Anna Karenina as described by Leo #Tolstoy is an excellent example of a neurotic person in the #literature.

#psychology #mindfulness #masculinity

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An opaque mix of audacious #masculinity and unattainability is irresistible to the #female.

OK, I understand. That was probably true 50 years ago when she wrote the book but by now might have changed to what you describe.

Your overall thinking is similar to the one of Esther Vilar, The Manipulated Man. According to Vilar, both men and women have the same three wants:

A Self-preservation - you call it protection

B Procreation - you call it sex

C Caring for offspring - you call it wanting children

Vilar then explains quite logically how women control their sexuality to force men into the role of the protective provider controlled by her. In other words, women control B to optimize A. In Vilar's philosophy, one would need to adjust two points to your initial axiom of basic wants:

1. In a natural, unsocialized form, women and men alike want to reproduce in order to outlive their own finiteness.

2. To gain protection, women don't subordinate wanting children but it is the sex drive they subordinate.

By adding 1. and 2. the phenomena you describe in your article, e.g. women being jealous of the protection being offered with nothing in return to children, can be described more elegantly.

To what extent would you agree?

The essence of #communication is not #information but transmission of #energy; energy determines the #depth and impact of your interactions.

#leadership #masculinity

The #value of your #attention cannot be overstated. Don't waste it on unworthy #information and emotions; instead, direct this resource towards your life #goals.

#mindfulness #masculinity

#Greatness is if you make your delusions your #reality.

-Mike Tyson

#motivation #masculinity #leadership

Inner #peace is a lifelong pursuit that can never be fully attained.

#mindfulness #mind #body

#Desire ignites a spark, a profound acknowledgment of the other person's unique essence that yearns to be embraced. It is thrilling and intense, fueled by #polarity, opaqueness and the allure of the unattainable.

As the #energy of desire is being released and intertwined with empathy and shared experiences, energies shift towards mutual alignment and support. This transformative process gives rise to #love, a nurturing bond founded on #affection and aspirations.

In the realm of #magic, the feminine thrives amid the enigmatic, while the masculine, with a desire for clarity and control, endeavors to master its hidden structure.

#masculinity #feminity #passion

Your biggest asset is who you are in #mind and #body. Money, possessions and even relationships are second. They all can be built from who you are.

#wealth #masculinity #growth

Surrender to the now without resistance.

#femininity #polarity #life

#Truth is like a lion, you don’t have to defend it. Let it loose, it will defend itself.

-Saint Augustine

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The essence of the #leadership is comprehending different #needs and forging a universally beneficial outcome.

#masculinity

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Genuine #love requires your capacity and strength to advance your life's mission without the other person.

#masculinity #purpose

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