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Paloma Maria
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In my mom era. Beauty & wife maxxing. Cooking is my love language.

Made it to #BuenosAires 🇦🇷🌞

So far, it feels like the most European city I’ve visited in the Americas—like a mix between Madrid and Bogotá.

Definitely wouldn’t live here though… too much city life, feels dirty, in crisis, and a bit unsafe.

But the meat? It’s great! Been eating lots of organs 🤤

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It’s interesting that throughout my journey on Nostr, I’ve learned more about human behavior than about technology itself.

We already understand how follows and likes work—they tap into the human psyche, fueling validation and attention-seeking. But I find that Zaps are a particularly useful tool, not just because they can be profitable, and kinda a circular economy but because they also give you a sense of how much people genuinely appreciate you.

The “zap” phenomenon is revealing. It shows who truly connects with and supports you, and the amount of Sats sent reflects how much they resonate with either you or what you’re posting.

If someone follows you but never zaps, they’re likely just passive viewers—maybe even low-key haters, sticking around out of morbid curiosity.

GM Fam🌹

#pv #grownostr #coffeechain

It’s easy to think you know someone just by what they share online, but there’s always more to the story. So, I thought I’d take a moment to properly introduce myself to all the new faces here!

My name is Paloma, also known as Moma ✨ I left my country 4 years ago to explore the world, spending 2 of those years nomading and backpacking across 4 continents.

I’ve traveled to 30 countries and lost count of how many cities along the way, lol. 😂 I’ve lived in Miami, Madrid, Costa Rica, Austin, and now I’ve settled on a beautiful island in Brazil 🇧🇷 I speak Spanish, English, and now a mix of Portuñol.

Currently, I’m building a supplements brand nostr:npub16a8cel7lequtxj69yr5q4tpnhv00dylawwwupm7w0cuajn5najwq8tvstx 💙.

Most of my time is spent wifeying, homemaking, lifting weights, and cooking—check out my traditional food gallery at @momacocina_ 🍴(on IG)

In the past, I ran an online coaching business helping women amplify their confidence, connect with their feminine energy, and create a life that turns them on. I took a time out but am considering a comeback 😏

Miscellaneous Fun Facts:

▪️Proud Latina & Island girl 🇩🇴🌴 #dominican

▪️Psychologist w/ a Master’s in Human Sexuality & Couples Therapy

▪️Spent most of my childhood as a ballerina 🩰, performing in my country and abroad

▪️Modeling & acting as a side hustle since I was 11

▪️Weightlifter 🏋🏻‍♀️ since 2015

▪️ Scorpio ♏️ through and through

▪️ I’m all about loyalty, being upfront, and showing mercy—these are the values I live by.

▪️My Beagle girl 🐶 @mara_thebeagle_ (On IG)

▪️Animal based, Passionate about traditional cooking & nutrient-dense foods 🍳

▪️Natural living enthusiast 🌱—herbal remedies, farmers market, detoxes, and holistic health

▪️Love to write ✍🏼 and use it as a way of coping.

▪️Love Languages: Quality Time/Acts of Service

✨ I’m also working on something special behind the scenes that I can’t wait to share with you all soon… stay tuned!

Your turn! Who are YOU? 😍 What do you offer to the world?

#introductions #GrowNostr

😏 I just ate the same earlier this morning! Btw Switch plastic for glass ♻️

I tried back in my teenage/ballet years! But really not my thing. Prefer lifting weights lol goes more with my personality

No One Is More Angry at Beautiful Women Than Unattractive Women…

#UnpopularOpinion #StoryTime

I just watched the new Selena documentary that aired earlier this year. It focuses mainly on her killer, Yolanda, and her family. I still remember Selena’s death vividly—one of the first world events I recall as a little girl. I mourned her loss, having been a devoted fan with all her cassettes. Selena's vibrant energy as a Latina resonated with me, and to this day, I can sing her songs, knowing all the lyrics like the back of my hand.

For those unfamiliar with her story, Selena was an American-Mexican singer who was at the peak of her career. She tragically died at the age of 23 when one of her closest friends and employees, Yolanda Saldívar, gunned her down after an argument. Selena was a rising star, known for her incredible voice, charisma, and her impact on both the music industry and the Latino community.

In the documentary, they hint that there’s more to Selena's death than what was reported in the mainstream media at the time. When you look at photos of Selena and Yolanda together, it’s easy to see that there’s a deeper story behind what really happened.

First, we have Selena—young, beautiful, brimming with divine feminine energy, talented, charismatic, and passionate. Not only was she physically stunning, but she was also magnetic on the inside. She was prominent and prodigious, already a household name before her death. Selena’s rise to fame was a family affair—her father managed her career, and her band was comprised mostly of family members. They all shared in her success.

Then, we have Yolanda. She, too, came from an immigrant family, but that’s where the similarities end. Yolanda lacked talent, charisma, and grace. She wasn’t special in any way—just an average person with clear signs of deep-rooted psychological issues. She was the first in her family to get a college degree and become a nurse, and perhaps that accomplishment made her feel superior, but she was also deeply insecure, plagued with self-esteem issues, and was less aesthetically pleasing (to put it lightly).

Here’s an ugly truth: attractive women and unattractive women often can’t maintain genuine friendships. I’ve experienced this personally, and so have many of my attractive friends. This isn’t something I say lightly; it's a harsh reality that has haunted me throughout my life. My deepest betrayals have come from women who were less attractive and envious, while my most stable and loyal friendships have come from women who are confident and beautiful in their own right. The only people who will deny this truth are those who struggle with low self-esteem.

One of the biggest mistakes Selena’s family made was allowing Yolanda to become the president of her fan club and granting her access to their inner circle. There was never going to be an honest friendship between them. Yolanda was projecting her insecurities onto Selena from the very start. She developed a strange obsession, which spiraled into toxic behavior, ultimately leading to Selena’s murder.

In the documentary, Yolanda claims there were many secrets between her and Selena. She even goes so far as to insinuate that Selena’s father was somehow complicit in his daughter’s death. To make matters worse, Yolanda tries to tarnish Selena’s memory by exposing personal details about her romantic life. This is not only a disrespect to Selena’s family and legacy but also an obvious display of Yolanda’s psychopathic tendencies. Her family supports her version of events, refusing to acknowledge the evidence and witness testimony. Yolanda claims she bought the gun for protection from Selena’s father and that during their final conversation, she was only trying to convince Selena to accept that she was quitting as manager of her clothing stores, and that Selena didn’t accept this, and Yolanda intended to kill herself, not Selena. This story doesn’t make any sense and is far from what the evidence suggests.

In reality, Selena was there to collect documents and end her professional and personal relationship with Yolanda. Unable to cope with being cast out of Selena’s life, Yolanda snapped. As Selena walked away with the papers, Yolanda shot her in the right subclavian artery and then called her a “bitch.” Despite Yolanda’s claim that the gunshot was an accident, the truth remains that this was a crime fueled by envy, jealousy, and hate.

What’s more pathetic is Yolanda’s attempt to convince us, 30 years later, that it was all just an accident. Is like she is re killing her again 😒. Her family, who are visibly unhealthy and unattractive themselves, tries to argue that Yolanda isn’t as bad as she was made out to be. It’s deeply pathetic. Many fans believe that Yolanda is safer in jail than she would be on the streets, and if she is granted parole next year, she likely won’t survive long outside.

Selena’s legacy, however, lives on. She remains in the hearts of her family, loved ones, and fans. You can kill the messenger, but you can’t kill the message. Her songs and impact will endure, even if some have tried to tarnish her name. It’s not death that erases a person, but forgetfulness, and Selena will never be forgotten.

I hope her tragic story serves as a lesson for talented young women—to be cautious of the people they surround themselves with. Not everyone is capable of handling your light, and some will seek to dim it in the most dangerous ways.

Long Live the Queen 🌹

#FoodForThought #SelenaQuintanilla #QueenOfTejanoMusic #RIP #LatinoGang #90s #ToxicFriendships #GrowNostr #pv

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I’m really happy to see this coming together and the community get behind it.

Derek & nostr:npub1hqaz3dlyuhfqhktqchawke39l92jj9nt30dsgh2zvd9z7dv3j3gqpkt56s with the support of myself & nostr:npub16c0nh3dnadzqpm76uctf5hqhe2lny344zsmpm6feee9p5rdxaa9q586nvr put in a huge effort to get the first “Nostr Booth” done nostr:npub167n5w6cj2wseqtmk26zllc7n28uv9c4vw28k2kht206vnghe5a7stgzu3r earlier this year and it was a huge success.

This is chapter 2, and it’s an entire initiative involving:

- 3 conferences in 3 cities over 3 weeks

- 3 full “Nostr days” on the day after each event

- Getting the actual organisers onto Nostr, and have them use it to post updates & activity + encouraging attendees to get on to stay up to date.

- A bunch of cool merch

- Loads of material for nostr:npub1lelkh3hhxw9hdwlcpk6q9t0xt9f7yze0y0nxazvzqjmre3p98x3sthkvyz's new Nostr Film

This is going to be absolutely EPIC, and if you’re reading this, please support. This is a community initiative, which many have contributing to so far, but AFAIK, it’s only 40% of the way there.

I’ve put up personally, and also from nostr:npub15xd2mmjnh3caykh77djsv73e0zkrp42jp5mwerx8f4m6su40wdvss7t3l3 considering it’s a Nostr business.

Well done on the hustle so far nostr:npub1hz5alqscpp8yjrvgsdp2n4ygkl8slvstrgvmjca7e45w6644ew7sewtysa

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lmao

Curious how to make your own beef tallow at home?

GM #Nostr 🌞

#Coffeechain #BeefTallow #Homemade #Pv #GrowNostr

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