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Narcissists Don’t Love – They Transact

Narcissists don't love, bond, or attach to others the way emotionally healthy people do. Everything they do—every word, gesture, or gift—is ultimately self-serving. They are transactional beings. One-way transactions.

Once a better "supply" comes along, they’ll leave. It doesn’t matter if you were married for 39 years or dated for just 3 months— they were never truly there for you. Their daily interaction with you was just one of many. They’re never satisfied and always on the hunt for a better deal, anywhere and everywhere.

While you were together, they were often involved with, or actively pursuing, 2–12 other people. You became dull, predictable—boring. Your love, your desire, your longing meant nothing after a while. They’ll discard you without remorse. No regret, no warmth, no missing you. They don’t have the emotional depth for that. You were just a thing—a means to an end.

Within 30 minutes of walking out the door and ending your "shared life," they’re already chasing someone new—relieved to be rid of you.

Yes, it sounds harsh. Bitter, even. But it’s the truth.

To a narcissist, no one matters. No one is "special"—except them. Stop making them special in your mind. Stop caring about what they think or feel. Take a breath. Begin to heal. Let them go. They only care about themselves. That will never change.

The Slow Exit That Feels Sudden

Narcissists don’t actually leave suddenly. It just feels that way. The truth is, they started planning their exit from the very first day. While you were committed and emotionally invested, they were already searching for a replacement—behind your back.

When they finally find a new victim, they discard you like garbage. Until then, you become their toy. They may pretend to care, or continue to draw you in—for attention or entertainment.

Even marriage doesn’t change this. Narcissists don’t care—not about you, not about your children. They lack empathy. They never truly loved you.

At the beginning of the relationship, they were mirroring you. That’s why it felt like they were your soulmate. But in reality, you were falling in love with your own reflection.

You Were a Supply—Nothing More

Narcissists only care about what they can get from you: sex, love, attention, housing, children, money, expensive gifts—whatever fuels their ego. They don’t care if it destroys you in the process. If you stop being useful, they move on.

They get bored easily. It doesn’t matter how attractive, kind, or wealthy you are. Even if you were Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie—they would still grow tired of you. They will cheat. If not physically, emotionally. If you’re with them now, odds are they were cheating on their previous partner with you. You just didn’t know.

Eventually, you might uncover their secret relationships or even an entirely different life. Once they calculate that walking away benefits them more than staying, they will vanish—no matter how long the relationship lasted. It’s painful, confusing—but in hindsight, their leaving is often the greatest gift.

They’ll treat the next person exactly as they treated you. And the one after that. And the one after that.

Acceptance Is the First Step Toward Healing

If you're the person they treated like you were "dead"—emotionally invisible—please recognize that it’s over. It’s time to focus on your healing. Yes, mistakes were made in the relationship, but the way someone treats you says far more about them than it does about you.

When someone who claimed to love you turns cruel or abandons you, it’s a wake-up call. Chances are, they never truly respected, valued, or even loved you in the first place. You may have missed red flags, or ignored them out of hope.

But now? Now it’s time to stop giving your energy to someone who does not care about you and never did. You deserve so much more.

Be kind to yourself. Seek therapy. Talk to someone you trust. Rebuild. Breakups are painful, but they also hold the potential for powerful growth.

None of us are perfect—but we can strive to be better people. People who choose empathy, and who honor others—even those who’ve hurt us.

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1724年,法国政府为路易斯安那殖民地颁布了《黑奴法1724》。这部法律详细的规范了路易斯安那殖民地黑奴社会的各个方面,包括权力与义务,法律地位,宗教信仰,婚姻家庭,劳动生活,犯罪与处罚等。

下面选读的就是《黑奴法 1724》,英文版来自《路易斯安娜历史文献集》,作者Benjamin Franklin French。< Historical Collections of Louisiana: Embracing Translations of Many Rare and Valuable Documents Relating to the Natural, Civil, and Political History of that State > (New York: D. Appleton, 1851)

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第一:将所有犹太人驱逐出殖民地。

第四:禁止非罗马天主教徒拥有奴隶。

第五:奴隶主必须严格遵守星期日和节假日休息制度。

如果发现黑奴在星期日或节假日工作,黑奴将被罚没(confiscation)。

第六:禁止白人臣民,自由黑人——无论男女,——与黑奴通婚。

禁止所有白人臣民,自由黑人与黑奴非法同居(concubinage)。如果此类行为导致子嗣,违法者和奴隶主人,都要罚款三百里弗(livres,法国银币)。如果子女是奴隶主与黑奴的后代,则该奴隶主不仅要支付罚款,还要剥夺奴隶及其子女。

第八:我们禁止所有牧师,在未经奴隶主同意的情况下,为奴隶主持婚礼。我们也禁止奴隶主干涉奴隶的恋爱和婚姻。

第九,第十条:奴隶主需要维护奴隶家庭完整,不得让父母和子女分开生活。

如果夫妻双方属于不同的主人,则子女应属于母亲的主人。如果父亲为奴隶,妻子为自由人,则子女为自由人。如果父亲为自由人,母亲为奴隶,则子女均应为奴隶。

第十一:如果奴隶有信仰,奴隶死后奴隶主应按宗教仪式,将其安葬于圣洁之地(consecrated ground.)

第十二:禁止奴隶私自携带武器,违者将被处以鞭刑。

第十三,第十四条:禁止奴隶集会。

违者将受到体罚,其刑罚不得低于鞭笞。若屡犯此类罪行,将被烙上鸢尾花的印记,情节严重的,可由法官酌情判处死刑。

如果奴隶主允许或纵容奴隶非法集会,首次犯罪处以罚款(30里弗),再犯则罚款金额加倍。

第十六:对十岁及十岁以上的奴隶,奴隶主必须每周提供两罐半(jar)玉米或木薯面粉,或至少两磅半的其他谷物,以及至少两磅腌牛肉,或三磅鱼,咸猪肉,或其他相应重量的肉类。

对于断奶至十岁的儿童,则提供上述食物的一半。

第十七:禁止奴隶主向奴隶提供甘蔗白兰地(cane brandy 朗姆酒)

第十八:禁止奴隶主克扣,剥夺奴隶的食物和生活必需品,

第十九:奴隶主每年必须为每个奴隶提供至少两套衣服,或4块布料(每块约1平方米)。

第二十:如果奴隶在饮食,服装,或其他生活必需品方面,未得到奴隶主妥善供应,奴隶可向当地司法官员举报。司法官员必须在不晚于下季度末,完成调查向法院提起诉讼。在办案过程中,公职人员以任何名义向奴隶索要好处,皆以敲诈勒索罪论处。

在奴隶对其奴隶主提起的所有犯罪,或野蛮及不人道虐待的指控中,都应遵守此规定。

第二十一:如果奴隶因为衰老,疾病,受伤等原因,丧失劳动能力,奴隶主应该赡养。

任何人发现被遗弃的奴隶,应将其送往最近的医院。医院应该予以救治,按每天八分钱的标准为奴隶提供食宿。这些费用由奴隶主承担。如果奴隶主拒绝承担,医院拥有对奴隶主不动财产(种植园)的扣押权(Lien)。

第二十二:奴隶没有财产权和收益权。他们在种植园劳动、从事贸易,获得捐赠等收入,全部归奴隶主所有。

第二十三:奴隶主对奴隶根据其命令所做的后果负责、

第二十四:奴隶不得担任公职。除非必要,奴隶不得成为证人。在奴隶主被告的案件中,禁止他的奴隶作证。

第三十八:禁止奴隶主私自对其奴隶施以酷刑。如有违反,奴隶将被没收,奴隶主将承担刑事责任。

第三十九:我们命令司法官员,对辖区内杀害或残害奴隶的奴隶主,监工提起刑事诉讼。

第四十:奴隶在法律上应被视为动产(chattel property),因此,他们应成为夫妻共同财产的一部分。奴隶应在奴隶主的共同继承人之间平均分配。。

第四十三:奴隶主禁止将奴隶家庭分开出售,奴隶的未成年子女不得与父母分开生活,除非奴隶主破产,或依法被强制分割财产。奴隶家庭指夫妻双方和未满十四岁子女。

第五十:年满二十五岁的奴隶主可以解放他的奴隶

第五十二:被解放(manumitted)的奴隶获得投票权(enfranchisements )。

第五十三、被解放的奴隶应该对原奴隶主及家人怀有敬意

第五十四.:我们赋予被解放的奴隶与生而自由的人享有同等的权利、特权和豁免。

以国王的名义,Bienville, De la Chaise.

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伏尔泰评论道,《黑奴法》只能说明,路易十四和他的法学家们对人权毫无概念。

2001年法国议会通过了第2001-434号法案,即 Taubira law。该法案称,法兰西共和国承认,自15世纪以来实施的《黑奴法》,奴隶制,和奴隶贸易,构成反人类罪

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第五十:年满二十五岁的奴隶主可以解放他的奴隶

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第三十八:禁止奴隶主私自对其奴隶施以酷刑。如有违反,奴隶将被没收,奴隶主将承担刑事责任。

第十七:禁止奴隶主向奴隶提供甘蔗白兰地(cane

第八:我们禁止所有牧师,在未经奴隶主同意的情况下,为奴隶主持婚礼。我们也禁止奴隶主干涉奴隶的恋爱和婚姻。

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1724年,法国政府为路易斯安那殖民地颁布了《黑奴法1724》。这部法律详细的规范了路易斯安那殖民地黑奴社会的各个方面,包括权力与义务,法律地位,宗教信仰,婚姻家庭,劳动生活,犯罪与处罚等。

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后世评价

第六:禁止白人臣民,自由黑人——无论男女,——与黑奴通婚。 law。该法案称,法兰西共和国承认,自15世纪以来实施的《黑奴法》,奴隶制,和奴隶贸易,构成反人类罪

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