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Roman Simon
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Thinker. Explorer. Speaker. ₿usinessman. Sharing deepest insights from my personal experience.

You approach a girl on the street and she tells you something you're afraid of hearing, something you were hiding from yourself all this time (fuck off, I don't like you, you have a small d, you're ugly, anything or just ignores you), what happens next?

Why are you afraid? What scares you? You will be ok, you did it, you have approached, you're the man! 😄

Fear of being disrespected is for children. You're not a boy anymore. Other peoples behaviors should not affect you...

You're doing pullups... what happens when you can't pull yourself up anymore?

Do one more. Now another one. No? You can't do it anymore? Take a break.

Now do it again. How many? Until you can't do anymore. Take a break. Do it again. But you are tired? Do more. Until you are devastated.

Now you are coming close to your limits. But you can go past the limit.

This is wasted potential.

We float in 10-30% of our potential, even when we think we are doing our maximum.

You can do 3x more than you're doing...

If you live in conditions similar to those of zoo animals or sheep on a farm, you'll be like them.

If you live in an environment similar to that of Spartan warriors, you'll be like a warrior.

You can read a thousand books on how to communicate, behave, and seduce women the right way, but your real path will be different anyway. Starting from simpy, then friendly, equal, then dominating, indifferent, then joyful...

And lots of embarrassment... lots of embarrassment 😄

Internet is full of information, mostly the same info copied countless times. And now, with the addition of AI, even more faceless unoriginal mediocre content will be added.

Personal, unique, and real experience is what was and will be interesting.

Be yourself. Talk to the world!

If you want a cat to come to you, you don't just call it as you would with a dog; you need to allure the cat.

This post is not about animals...

I was walking, and a beautiful girl came out of a corner. I immediately looked into her eyes and said,

'Excuse me!'

'You excuse me!' she replied with a smile.

'What?' I was surprised and smiling. 'What should I excuse you for?'

'I stopped you... so...'

'Hmmm... Actually, you're right. I was walking in a warrior mood, thinking about conquering the world, and then you appeared with your beautiful smile and pushed me into a romantic mood. But I will not excuse you so easily. Maybe after we meet tomorrow and get to know each other better, I will. For now, put your Instagram username in this field, and I'll think about what I'm doing with you...'

She was smiling and enjoying our communication. Then I kissed her cheek, and we went our separate ways...

The world is the way it is for reasons. If you don't understand something, think it's illogical, or believe it's meaningless, then you're the one who needs to learn and change.

If you feel your worth is low, you'll have problems communicating and exchanging value with people.

And it is really your internal self-worth, which is a subjective feeling. It doesn't depend on your wealth, expertise, strength, or anything else.

Sometimes, I feel like I'm an absolute nobody with zero value. I can't even talk to people in that state.

And it takes a minute and several sentences to change this state into complete opposite...

When I approach women, I just come close, say hi or excuse me, and then ask or say whatever comes to my mind. No pickup lines, no prepared texts/tricks, just sincere honest communication.

People can see and feel your energy and intentions.

Be yourself and do whatever you want!

To be able to learn the truth, we need to let go of all the lies we have been told.

We all know lots of things, we have beliefs, evidence, experience...

Most likely, we are wrong.

Start from scratch, research, analyze try...

I am the Superman, but I struggle every day. I am in discomfort and pain most of the time. I have doubts and deep fears... I know that I can achieve anything, and it scares me...

It is a choice. You decide, you act, you succeed!

Is it painful? Good. Focus on the process. You're progressing. You are becoming the new you, and it takes time.

You can do it!

If you bring a child to a boxing match and show him how brutally boxers punch each other, if you tell him, 'One day you will become a boxer and fight like that in the ring,' he will become overwhelmed, scared, disgusted, and angry, and will start resisting.

This is what happens to us when we feel like whatever we want may come true. Our present self (inner child) can't comprehend the possibility that we can do that. We are afraid and start sabotaging the goal.

The trick is to play with imagination, visualizing different scenarios. The more we live it in our minds, the less threatening it will feel. Also, we can imagine what kind of person we need to become to enjoy it. Whatever we see vividly, whatever we obsess over, is what will happen...

Fuck DISCIPLINE, understanding is the KEY we are MISSING.

When we want to do anything, we do it and enjoy.

When we don't want to do something, we avoid it or, if it is important and we have to do it, we call it discipline and force ourselves into doing it, using tricks and punishment. But we never call it discipline when we want to do it.

The problem is, when you force yourself, the body starts resisting. And while you may trick yourself into doing things you hate, you will hate them anyway, no matter how long you do them. And with time, you will start feeling that you are forced and waste your life.

It is not about easy or hard, simple or complex, safe or dangerous... Whatever we feel is important and want to do, we will do with interest and pleasure! Even if it's painful.

It is about understanding. That it is important! That our life depends on it! That we are the creators of our lives!

If for some reason I miss my daily workout, I am worried... I find time and train anyways... at home, in a park, on the street or somewhere I'm doing business... Why? Because I'm a warrior, this is what I do, I train, I'm strong!

And this is true for all areas of my life. When I need to do something, I sit and think it through.

- Why do I need it?

- Do I want it?

- How will it change my life?

- Is this aligned with my purpose?

If I decide that I want it, I do it and find ways to enjoy it. Not forcing myself or punishing. Enjoying the challenge. Imagining and visualizing the results...

Understanding will set us free!

The most valuable resource in the universe is time, yet we often fail to fully comprehend its importance, wasting our limited time on unimportant things. What's worse, we allow others to waste our time.

Yesterday, while in a shop, I witnessed a woman arguing with the staff. She had purchased candies priced at $7, believing they were $3. The ensuing dispute led to police involvement and consumed several hours, likely leaving her frustrated for the remainder of the day. She just wasted her whole day for nothing...

Too often, we aimlessly search for discounts or ways to save money, sacrificing our precious time. We fail to recognize its true value.

To attain success and achieve greatness, it's essential to manage your time effectively.

You can enjoy an activity only if you're adapted to it, which takes time and effort.

The harder the activity and the more energy it requires, the longer it will take to become adapted to it.

Until then, you need to find reasons to continue doing it... 🤷🏻‍♂️