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s3x_jay
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I'm the guy behind https://s3x.social and a bunch of other sites. For ~15 years I've focused on building & running #gay sites. I'm also one of the Community Ambassadors at https://XBiz.net - the #porn industry's leading B2B discussion forum. #LGBT #NYC #Harlem

After reading nostr: npub1k3tkt908g5u707fdgrc3yxyhcmhkhth69tal4wlape5dvsrmyp6q4xnvxq’s response I understand what you were trying to say and get your point. 👍

You’re clearly not LGBT. That’s fine. Let me explain…

I grew up gay in a fundamentalist Christian home. For a time Jerry Falwell was my pastor.

After I came out I tried for years to get my parents to truly accept me. But it didn’t happen. So I walked away. I let them be them, but it was too painful and damaging to be part of their world.

What I learned in that process is that it’s not my job to make people accept me. It’s not my fault if they don’t. That’s not my responsibility. It’s not my purpose.

If people can’t see me as their equal, that’s their fault, not mine. They’re the problem, not me.

Intolerance of intolerance is not intolerance.

I’m shocked how simple and quick Lighting payments are. Now that I see them in action I don’t understand why more sites don’t offer them. All that I see that would be useful but not mentioned is an API to convert fiat to sats in the moment.

If that were the case we’d want the signatures of the single mom with kids working two jobs to pay the bills.

You’re either using the wrong client, and/or following the wrong people.

ETH says PoS is more secure, but you’re saying there’s a cost to that? Interesting…

Thanks, but I did finally get it running. While the guy was on vacation another guy subbed for him and got it up. Just a few tweaks pending like turning on HSTS and possibly blocking a few countries where some of the content on my server could get someone killed. (Welcome to the world of homophobia).

Thanks. When eco-conscious people say BTC is horrible because of PoW - that’s the answer… “you don’t have to have wealthy to do PoW, but you need to be for PoS.” We “big city liberals” will understand that. It’s something we can tell our friends that sounds reasonable. And then follow up with “BTC uses less energy than video games”.

It took me over two months to get my nostream relay up and running. You had specified a requirement that wasn’t supported by my OS. So first they were just going to switch me to a similar server with a newer OS. But then I questioned whether there was a enough RAM in the new server. There wasn’t, so that meant a more major upgrade that also switched data centers. Then when the relay was kinda ready the guy doing the migration went on vacation for 2 weeks. 😖

I was hoping to be the first relay in the adult industry, but someone beat me to it. Best I could do was first LGBT relay.

What does “need to token” mean? (You’re talking a foreign language to me).