What is your view of individuals, who only pick up Christianity when feeling unhappy/bad, when feeling happy/good toss it back in the trash, and sometimes when feeling neither & bored, take it back out from the trash for mischief & entertainment?
If you don't bother even verbally resisting when in confrontations, then it indicates maybe you won't even scream when you get rolled over.
If your self-awareness and reflection fails to achieve this, then it is still incomplete.
And if you cannot articulate your abstract values in material & precise terms, you will have an even harder time to defend them or yourself, when your peace & comfort gets disrupted.
What alternative actions, would have resulted in you seeing it as a massive success, from your point of view specifically?
What do you find of value on instagram, to keep using it, besides egirls?
Rationalizing and self-deception is not necessary. You feel the pain either way.
Grief, sadness, and hurt are involuntary, physiological, and psychological responses. You can't just logic them away.
Wouldn't that mean you're just making yourself numb, by repeatedly having "your heart stomped on"?
You cannot 'choose' to feel bad about it. You either feel it or you don't.
You can also lose it all, before you leave, because hate can be so much stronger when it involves those you've grown to love.
Would you choose to take your children with you when leaving, if it ever came down to it?
*Not to destroy the community, but to find out if you will run
Every regulation is a manufactured necessity - unless proportional warranties/liabilities for failures exist as part of the Contract/Promise/Legislation, with aim to punish the proposer(s) responsible for creating the demand for regulation(s) to become necessary in the first place.

