Do you think women in general find men who do chores around the house, chores traditionally done by women in the past, like washing dishes & clothes, sewing, cooking, sweeping, dusting, an attractive quality in men?

Do you think women in general find men who do chores around the house, chores traditionally done by women in the past, like washing dishes & clothes, sewing, cooking, sweeping, dusting, an attractive quality in men?

When talking about partnerships, 100%. I can’t speak to those looking for physical connection only. But women are learning new skills to be competitive in the workplace and are interested in partners who are able to be equals and who are also striving to improve and grow. Continuing to do all the tasks that are typically “female coded”, while also bringing in incomes equal to or greater than their partners, is a recipe for resentment. From what I know from my experience as a woman, those that I’m close to, and the content I’ve read - equality during the second shift is HIGHLY attractive and desired and largely missing. To me, this is a natural pain point of societal growth and no one expects people to instantly evolve… but some acknowledgment and effort here can go a LONG way.

“Wherever there was evidence available in connection with the lives of men and women of great achievement, it indicated most convincingly that they possessed highly developed sex natures.” Wasting this energy with someone inconsequential and not an equal, but rather channeling that sexual energy into your genius work and elevating that through a committed relationship with your partner is what makes someone into a genius creator. Find your equal and you’ll go next level, together. (Lots of the types you describe aren’t doing anything great, or are fucking up, because they’re wasting their sexual energy on low hanging fruit. But if you know the secret, you can aim for something of higher quality).

To me hookup culture turned dating into a highly competitive sexual marketplace dominated by top tier men who get to experience the majority of women in their youth. These men have plenty of options and will never settle so women end up sharing them en masse.

Young men disillusioned whose only access to women is sending money to them. A growing resentment of the opposite gender inevitably brewing inside them.

Women approaching the end of their fertility panic settling or completely unable to lock down a suitable partner. A growing resentment of the inadequate men available to them at that point.

When I was a kid everyone knew the man or woman who didn’t marry. It’s becoming commonplace. Most marriages end in divorce because the race never seems to end and the grass seems to be greener.

To me hookup culture turned dating into a highly competitive sexual marketplace dominated by top tier men who get to experience the majority of women in their youth. These men have plenty of options and will never settle so women end up sharing them en masse.

Young men disillusioned whose only access to women is sending money to them. A growing resentment of the opposite gender inevitably brewing inside them.

Women approaching the end of their fertility panic settling or completely unable to lock down a suitable partner. A growing resentment of the inadequate men available to them at that point.

When I was a kid everyone knew the man or woman who didn’t marry. It’s becoming commonplace. Most marriages end in divorce because the race never seems to end and the grass seems to be greener.

Hookup Culture. What are your honest thoughts on it?