How has your day been so far? Were you able to read?

I realized my t-shirt drawer resembles a bookshelf

I’m a laundry folding extraordinaire! It’s one of my special talents. My t-shirt drawer is a row of file folded t-shirts.

I’ve done that with hotel towels. Haven’t managed to confuse a hand towel with a bath towel at my house. I fold hand towels in sixths (in thirds then in half) and bath towels in quarters.

If I ever have an active dating app profile again, I think I’ll ask people what seems like a random dealbreaker they have? I just heard a woman say she realized someone not having a favorite dinosaur was a dealbreaker for her. I went on a date last year and it was a dealbreaker for the guy that we had different ideas about the ideal garden. I thought it was so weird at the time. Only to realize later that the type of garden you want says a lot about the type of life you want to live.

Anyway, anyone have some seemingly random dealbreakers they feel like sharing? Even if you’re taken feel free to chime in if you’ve got one. #asknostr

🤣 Sorry that sucks. I travel with a bath towel because I’ve seen some hotels that offer towels barely larger than a hand towel.

Do you find that you’re attracted to fewer people than your friends? Or like I know people who go on dates with people they’re meh about and I feel like I’m misrepresenting myself and wasting someone’s time.

I’ve heard that before. Don’t know that I agree. Art or play therapy maybe.

Are we talking about you or me? I so relate.

My experience has been that when you start protecting yourself from untrustworthy people, identifying them and either not letting them in your life or cutting them out, it becomes easier to trust. You are giving yourself evidence that you will protect yourself and your boundaries. When you trust that you can protect yourself it becomes easier to let the right people in. It’s definitely a work in progress for me at least.

You were not alone. I think a lot of people have forgotten that dating should be fun. It’s sounding like y’all are out there surviving wars.

Sounds like your picker is broken.

My personal experience I went through a period of dating emotionally unavailable men because it was easier to blame them than look at my commitment issues. I wanted to try to protect my heart from being hurt. Which is impossible to do and truly let someone in.

Some of y’all need to work on your concept of a random dealbreaker and not a totally typical one.

Nothing special. I have worked. Soon I go to the gym and then later eat with friends. Reading sounds great 🫂

Found two dress pants on sale 🙌🏼 to mix & match with my sweaters/blouses. But jeans are so easy to dress up or down— I miss wearing them to work.

If I ever have an active dating app profile again, I think I’ll ask people what seems like a random dealbreaker they have? I just heard a woman say she realized someone not having a favorite dinosaur was a dealbreaker for her. I went on a date last year and it was a dealbreaker for the guy that we had different ideas about the ideal garden. I thought it was so weird at the time. Only to realize later that the type of garden you want says a lot about the type of life you want to live.

Anyway, anyone have some seemingly random dealbreakers they feel like sharing? Even if you’re taken feel free to chime in if you’ve got one. #asknostr

One day a week, teachers at my school are allowed to wear jeans & pay a fee that raised money for something work related. For me— a dressy blouse & not so casual cut jeans were typically the norm on these days. But this school year— no more jean days (for a reason not mentioning) & I’m so sad. But I’m also on the look out to add to my wardrobe— #shopping