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There'd be no dumb shit about msats if he were

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# About the Submission of Wives to Their Husbands

We are all, in some way or another, in rebellion against God, and then it is not about judging women for their own rebellion but about trying to understand why and how they can change if they want to.

Let us start by saying that submission is something that one does voluntarily and that it couldn't be in any other way because men and women were created equally and our Father has no preference for men over women nor women over men, and since we all have free will, it is up to us whether we submit to someone or not.

Jesus Christ gave us the most astonishing example. When Jesus was twelve, his parents took him to Jerusalem for a holiday. On the way home, they realized he was missing and went back to look for him. After three days of searching, they found Jesus in the Temple sitting with the teachers. Everyone was amazed at how smart he was. Mary was upset and asked, "Why did you do this? We were so worried!" Jesus answered, "Why were you looking for me? Didn't you know I had to be in my Father's house?" Mary didn't understand what he meant. Jesus went back home with them and obeyed them.

Why would Jesus Christ, God himself, obey Mary and Joseph? Jesus voluntarily obeyed his parents because that's the natural law, God's law, and he doesn't break his own law. Children must obey their parents because nobody will love them and take care of them as their parents do. We all have obeyed our parents even when we weren't able to understand why they asked us to do or not to do something, and that's okay because parents love their children much more than children love their parents. In that sense, the family replicates in this world the same structure where our Father loves us more than we love him. Moreover, just as children somehow know that obeying is the natural thing to do, they don't always want to do it.

Submitting to God, our loving Father who wants the best for all of us and who sent his son to suffer and die for us, should simply be natural, but we fail to do it miserably again and again. The same happens with our sisters. If you met a good man, one that you are in love with, someone who loves you and wanted to marry you and form a family with you and make you happy, shouldn't it be natural to submit to him? I mean, all men know that women have virtues and vices different from theirs and they all know that women have been given what they don't have. However, many women believe they are like men and that men haven't received anything special, so why would a woman submit to her husband? But the reality is that leadership is more natural in men and submission to their husbands is also natural in women. In the same way that wives feel unhappy when their husbands refuse to lead, men feel unhappy when their wives don't follow them.

There is also a lack of trust. What if I submit to my husband and he loses his path? Or he becomes irresponsible or leads the family to ruin? What if he becomes a bad model for my children?

In the same way that you submitted voluntarily because you trusted him, once it is clear that you can no longer trust him anymore, you don't have to submit to him anymore in order to save your household. That's what Abigail's story is about, and God sees it as good, just as he sees your submission to your husband as good when he is a good man.

A husband who loves his wife would naturally pursue her happiness, and a wife who loves her husband would naturally submit to him. But how? Let us start by helping him to develop his role as the authority of the family and as the priest of the family. Let him sit at the head of the table, let him start the prayer, let him have the final decision and support it. Correct him with love when he makes a mistake, hold him when he stumbles, and ask him all what you need to fulfill your role as mather of the family.

This was important for me to read as a son and a future husband. Thank you

I notice a good amount of people in the BTC community exploring diets like low-carb, keto, carnivore etc. I'd like to learn more but notice a ton of information and I know not what to believe. Can someone who finds this important send me what/whom they follow so I can get on somewhat of a directed path? Please and thank you

Space will be your biggest problem and after a while it will get old

Orange pilled a family-woman looking for purpose the other day. I found no bitchatters on the cruise ship but this will do for now.

I'm sure some others out there have clients they love. How have you had the most success orange pilling them? Asking for a friend.

I am a financial advisor.

I'm young in the business. The vast majority of us are here for the purpose of making as much money as possible. Not because that's what we want inside, but because that is what we are taught. The route of a financial advisor starts young. If you aren't 20 years old in the beginning, you probably won't make it past your first year. Who cares why. The young are impressionable. Don't blame them for they know not what they do. Not for the first few years anyways... What they become in the long-arc, just like anything else is the product of their values applied to their decision making. Courageless people exist everywhere. In finance, you can make the most money, so they often find themselves there. But not all are like that...

I became a bitcoiner in 2021 after listening to Saifedean Ammous speak on the Lex Friedman podcast. Bought the book and down our rabbit hole we go. Further exploration lead me to understand "Fix the money fix the world". This would take years of course. Arguably into 2023. This was the only way we fixed things. The only way to achieve abundance for everyone.

I became a financial advisor in 2022. Learned about AUM, annuities+LI and all the products a client could buy. I became truly convinced of their worth (assuming a bitcoinless world). Under a tradfi lens, they are still quality. About as quality as the statement that a treasury bond is risk-free anyways. But I knew how to do right by the client in a bitcoiner sense and a tradfi sense. They almost always disagree.

The bigger impact stuff is around financial planning. To me it's more financial strategizing alongside them. Two minds. That is why my clients hire me. When young in being an FA, you think you know the optimal move for a client and decide to tell them how it's going to work; making the decision for them with little input from them other than their basic objective and risk tolerance. This never works. Instead, the idea has to very clearly in their mind reflect their decided path towards the goal in a way they understand. You have to spend a lot of time with the client to educate them on what they're doing and why. For example. A client may tell me they want to grow their wealth. Someone may recommend contribute to the S&P 500 for its performance track record. A non-bitcoiner would do this with little though. But to suggest instead we contribute to a bitcoin stash in self custody would be insane. The difference is one's belief in bitcoin. In other words. Someone cannot invest in something in which the have no personal conviction. Getting my clients to access information in bitcoin to further their understanding has been the biggest struggle.

I sell traditional investments, while helping my clients learn about bitcoin so they see the scam underlying everything; especially their traditional investments. I'd be happy to discuss how I do this and still sleep very well at night.

Lately, I've found the majority of time I spend talking with my clients is some round about way of me bringing them to bitcoin. If not roundabout, then completely overt. "The single biggest piece of advice I can give you is the one that gets you to study bitcoin." I try and try and try. Asking them to read is too much it seems. Shouting at them is also quite ineffective. Lately the only thing working has been monologuing with the information I learn from you folks. They see the transparency of my intentions and because some have known me for years, they get closer to maybe perhaps one day thinking about looking into it. I listen to a lot of the louder voices on here in the development and bitcoin space and it gives so much hope. I just keep going. I think I was put into this position with the type of integrity to not ignore bitcoin because of my incentive to do so.

I'd be more than happy to discuss more if anyone finds this interesting. This is more to show appreciation and to describe myself in poorly executed brevity so you guys understand from where this appreciation comes.

Thank you to everyone. Keep developing. Keep talking. Keep asking questions and demanding they be answered. Know you help me greatly in my mission to make more bitcoiners.

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