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Byrger Tidesson
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do whatever fits your usage 🙂 There were problems using multiple apps some time ago (like losing all your follows) but I think these have been sorted out!

I'm scared AF by snakes, but at the same time I find them incredibly fascinating creatures

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Moment of vulnerability here, wondering if anyone has had a similar experience before.

I completely LOST it on another person's kid today when I thought they had intentionally hurt my daughter, but I was wrong and now I feel horrible.

Context: on a road trip with another family. The other child has behavioral issues and has been known to get physical in the past with others at school and daycare. Over the course of the trip he's been pretty poorly behaved and aggressive but not downright violent... but I had it in the back of my mind that it could happen.

My daughter was playing with him in the other room, then suddenly runs out screaming, bleeding from the mouth and saying that he had hit her. I've never experienced anyone intentionally hurt my little girl and I instantly flew into protective dad mode before properly assessing the situation. In my mind he had punched her in the mouth.

I stormed into the room and flew into a rage, screaming at the absolute top of my lungs, pointing my finger in the kid's face saying to NEVER touch her EVER again. His mom was right behind me. He was likely terrified and I was honestly way beyond any level of anger I've ever felt.

In the next minute or two my daughter then clarified that it was an accident and they had been playing rough but had unintentionally slammed into each other.

The boy cried, his mom was in shock, and she also had tears in her eyes. I feel absolutely awful about the whole situation, I should have had more self control, and I'm a little in shock how quickly I became an absolute monster to a young kid.

I apologized in the moment to both of them and sent a message after saying I should have handled the situation better.

Just really upset about the whole thing, unsure how to proceed now. Any girl dads out there ever have this happen to them?

as a father of a little girl myself, I can absolutely understand your behavior and your feelings right now.

Once the damage is done, however, we can only apologize for our mistake and learn to self control ourself for the next time.

Don't know what the best way to apologize, beside words, would be.

Maybe ask to talk with the the other boy and his parents (if they agree) to apologize in person and explain what happened? Maybe this would be a lesson for them too?

to me it didn't happen in a clici. It was a process that took months. nonetheless it was like an amazing travel to a new world 🙂

no, a 51% attack is another thing. That consist in the ability of rewrite a significant number of blocks, allowing a double spend. In order to do that you "only" need the 51% of the hash power for a certain period of time (depending on how much you want go in the past). In the previous reply I was talking about the control of consensus.