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The rule count is too dang high I like freedom. #helistr

Even when the days are long, the years are short.

Maybe when you’re scared, you run. Once you realize getting older is awesome and not scary, you stand your ground. 😂

That would be poetic. Do it, do it now! 🚁😁

Replying to Avatar Ryan

Just realized what this was in reference to. Good one😂

Replying to Avatar Ryan

It did for me. Only social media I use 😎

Some still don’t realize that hether you paid in bitcoin, or in another currency that could have been used to acquire sats, that beer will have cost 100k 5 years ago.

I like the idea of people I’ve muted having a conversation in the replies to my note and I don’t even know about it😂

For me it was probably more that everything seemed meaningless, so why put effort in. Looking back I realized that it was also the first time in my life I didn’t feel like I could remake myself into a new career or big life change if I wanted to. Kinda stuck with the life I had, and even though that life was awesome it felt like less sense of adventure. By 51-52ish I was out of it and now think this phase of life with grown kids is awesome. Less figuring out what’s next, and more enjoying each day for the blessings it has.

I felt the same way when I turned 40. I thought the idea of a midlife crisis was a joke. Then around 48, I found myself fighting depression (at least my version of it) and everything in life was just blah and I was frustrated to why. Once I started talking about it I found out many other men had the same experience in late 40s, I think the timing of midlife has moved. Just be ready for it is my advice so you can recognize when it comes. Once I understood it was classic midlife crises thinking it was much easier to find a path through it. Don’t mean to be preachy on your note but I wished more older men had been open with me about their experiences at that age. Oh, and the awesome part of being 40…. Everyone starts leaving you alone when you tell them you don’t want to do something😁

While you do this, I’m going to have another cup of coffee chill. I’m thankful people like you are in this world 🚁👍🏻

“…… we can do serious things” 😂😂😂. Great line!

GM and happy Saturday nostr. I’m sitting on my patio sipping coffee, watching the sunrise, and throwing the ball for my dog. Pretty much peak humanity right here. 😁

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Are there still places with vibes anymore? Or did the internet kind of kill it?

I feel like digital spaces have vibes. Nostr has a vibe for sure, but everywhere I go (in America at least) feels flat, steril and homogenous now.

People like to pretend otherwise, romanticizing local charm and it’s fun to do so, but in reality there is no meaningful difference between New York, LA, Chicago, Austin, Miami etc…

The differences feel increasingly superficial. Miami with its neon pink and bad Latin art. New York with its identical minimalist cafes selling identical oat lattes. These aren’t cities anymore, they’re brands. “Keep Austin Weird” feels less like the rallying cry of a bohemian collective and more like a safe corporate brand slogan.

It wasn’t always like this. Cities used to incubate true subcultures that couldn’t thrive anywhere else. Seattle once had grunge music emerging organically from local clubs, distinct in sound and attitude. Detroit was a birthplace for techno and industrial grit that couldn’t have been manufactured. New Orleans had jazz clubs and vibrant local traditions that permeated every street corner authentically. Before the internet collapsed distances, you could sense deep authenticity upon arriving somewhere new. The vibe wasn’t something designed by marketing departments; it was organically woven into the streets, the people, the music, and local myths.

Now, vibes feel engineered and commoditized, reduced to Instagrammable moments and easily replicable aesthetics. I once watched from the balcony of my hotel in Nashville as 200 women waited in line to take the same stupid picture with the same stupid set of angel wings.

Digital spaces, ironically, have become refuges of uniqueness, fostering communities unburdened by geographical homogenization. Platforms like nostr host unique niche communities, from hyper-specific gaming bitcoin cultural milieu to obscure philosophical discussions, that retain genuinely distinctive vibes.

Perhaps we’re now entering a strange inversion, where real-world spaces chase digital popularity, adopting blandness to maximize broad appeal.

In this inversion, digital worlds might become the primary spaces where unique vibes survive, thrive, and multiply—leaving our physical world as little more than a flattened reflection of what used to be.

Nostr is where the vibes are at.

I definitely feel this. I think a lot of culture revolves around food. The financialization of food has made it so the same restaurants/foods are now in every part of the country. I’m hoping bitcoin leads to the death of food chains and a revival of small establishments focused on what the area does best.