If this doesn't translate to one hell of a good day, I don't know what does.
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Bets on #Bitcoin being mentioned in this book?
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I can barely tie my shoe laces without pulling a muscle 😂
London is a city of parks galore 🌿☀️
They have arrived!! 😍
Climate change is becoming unsustainable https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/1896200887200002048/pu/vid/avc1/576x1024/URE5iB_7TEugv8BJ.mp4
Wtf?
Thank you for reading and for sharing your own experience too 🫂
Human beings are flawed, but that very same nature is what makes us beautiful. As different as we all are, and as different as our experiences may be from the moment we’re born (and even before), there’s something deeply unifying in that.
What you shared is something many can relate to. Besides any inner wound, sometimes those who are hurting - and unaware of that pain - end up hurting the ones they love the most, or the ones who saw that pain and stood by them through it.
If you feel comfortable sharing, how was that process of understanding yourself? :)
I also believe we can sometimes hurt others in ways that are far removed from how we experience or perceive pain ourselves, but I'd say that's when empathy comes in and the key is being open to truly hearing what the other person has to say when they explain the impact.
Honestly I didn't realise he did this and there's a whole series of them with vegs 😂
"If I fit, I sit" - #Catstr 😂
Just sharing something personal I wrote this morning, more for my own release than anything else:
"It's a lot easier for me to forgive others than it is to forgive myself.
Someone asked me the other day, as part of a process, to make a list of people who had hurt me in my life. That was one of the most awkward things I’ve ever been asked to do - because, I just don’t remember. I don’t hold on to those things in such a way. Honestly? Sometimes I wish I did - but I’ve always tried to understand why people act the way they do, even if I wouldn’t, and especially I aim at understanding what part I may have played in it, if any.
I do connect certain reactions or feelings, when they arise, to past experiences or moments that left a mark in me, but for healing and processing, not blame. Ultimately, I don’t retain names or moments in a way that fits into a question like that.
My selective memory protects me, but at the same time, it doesn't do that with my own actions. I can point out when I hurt someone, directly or indirectly. I remember the moments I was told, and those I understood by myself. They are the biggest lessons for me.
A slight problem is, I may neglect my own context, how I was truly feeling at the time - and although that doesn't justify everything, is interesting to experience how I bring such understanding to others but not to myself. How I put myself aside to make space for someone else's truth. Both can co-exist.
I’m still learning that I need to be careful with how much blame I absorb, as sometimes I make myself responsible even when I don't have to.
I have to stay mindful of that - not only to avoid overcompensating, but to be kind to myself too." ❤️
All this to say, sometimes we must unlearn what is inherent to us.
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I'll never look at cucumber the same way again. Genius. https://video.nostr.build/25192864353f321bd15ba294a7ac0bbc031ae395ed03ea94bb9edb62ba3d23be.mp4
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