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Muslim, Turkish man living in Germany, Internet veteran, husband and father. My Projects: ✨ #NoorNote, a premium Linux & MacOS desktop Nostr client: https://github.com/77elements/noornote/ ✨ #NoorSigner, a CLI Linux & MacOS desktop Key Signer: https://github.com/77elements/noorsigner 🔥My book "The White Ram Lamb" is out!🔥 A dystopian Muslim cyberpunk science fiction novel https://mslmdvlpmnt.com/the-white-ram-lamb/ Other small projects: - Muslims Follow Pack: https://following.space/d/bsb40kv9nwr4 - ZapStar 💫 - Find out who zaps you the most: https://mslmdvlpmnt.com/zapstar/ - Search npubs by keywords: https://mslmdvlpmnt.com/SearchInNpub/ - Relay Inspector: https://mslmdvlpmnt.com/tools/relay-inspector.html

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The alternative is not Twitter. The alternative is self-hosted weblogs. And nostr is in no way better then them.

That's the right answer. Convenience.

Blogs were more decentralized and free then nostr. There were even dedicated servers to identify trends. And you could opt-out of them (in your CMS settings) by not pinging these servers, if you didn't want to.

Ok, 'freedom tech' fans, somebody explain me this.

You all celebrate Nostr for being a real decentralized alternative to centralized platforms like X. But we've had this technological feature for a long time with the Internet itself. We have servers, DNS, blogs, ping APIs etc.

Why, all of a sudden, do we need relays to achieve the same 'freedom'?

At what level are you?

Coinbase now offers a WooCommerce plugin to accept Bitcoin (and shitcoin) payments in an online store.

The plugin itself is free, but I guess they're charging the usual transaction fees.

https://www.coinbase.com/commerce/integrations/woocommerce

https://woocommerce.com/products/coinbase-commerce/

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# The Looming Shortage of Interesting Shit to Talk About: Unraveling the Effects and Remedies

## Introduction

In our fast-paced, technology-driven world, captivating and thought-provoking topics for discussion are becoming rare gems. The so-called "looming shortage of interesting shit to talk about" stems from the seemingly endless cycle of mundane daily routines and the prevalence of shallow conversations. In this article, we delve into the causes, consequences, and potential remedies to breathe life into our dialogues.

## Causes

### The Age of Information Overload

The rise of social media platforms, news outlets, and digital content has led to an abundance of information. However, much of it is trivial and repetitive, leaving little room for substantive, engaging discussions. Conversations often revolve around superficial topics, creating a void of depth and substance.

### Reliance on Small Talk

Small talk has its place in social interactions, but when it becomes the default mode of conversation, it stifles the potential for engaging discussions. Fear of discomfort or potential disagreements prevents us from delving into thought-provoking topics.

### Homogeneity and Echo Chambers

The fragmentation of society into online communities and echo chambers has reduced exposure to diverse perspectives. Surrounding ourselves with like-minded individuals who reinforce our beliefs and values limits the chance for stimulating conversations and intellectual growth.

### The Influence of Digital Distraction

Our digital age, while providing an abundance of information, can also create a constant state of distraction. The constant buzz of notifications and updates make it challenging to focus on a single topic long enough to have a deep and meaningful conversation about it. Our attention is spread thin across numerous topics, making our discussions more superficial.

## Consequences

### Boredom and Disengagement

Mundane and unsubstantial conversations lead to boredom and disengagement. When people feel unstimulated, they may withdraw from social interactions, resulting in a lack of genuine connection and missed opportunities for personal growth.

### Superficial Relationships

The absence of engaging discussions hampers the development of meaningful relationships. Without a variety of stimulating topics, relationships may remain superficial and lack real depth.

### Intellectual Stagnation

The shortage of interesting discussion topics stifles intellectual growth and curiosity. Engaging in conversations that challenge our assumptions and expand our knowledge is essential for personal development. The absence of such discussions can hinder creativity, critical thinking, and problem-solving skills.

## Remedies

### Seeking Diverse Perspectives

To stimulate engaging conversations, actively seek out diverse viewpoints. Engaging with people from diverse backgrounds, interests, and opinions can bring fresh insights and catalyze stimulating conversations.

### Embracing Curiosity

Foster a curiosity mindset and explore topics outside your comfort zone. Dive into art, history, science, literature, and bring these subjects into discussions. This curiosity will naturally lead to more interesting conversations.

### Deepening Existing Conversations

Inject depth into existing conversations by asking open-ended questions and encouraging others to share their experiences and thoughts. Practice active listening and show genuine interest in what others have to say.

### Challenging Social Norms

Break free from the mundane script of small talk by initiating conversations about meaningful topics. Explore current events, global issues, or personal experiences that provoke thought and foster connections.

### The Role of Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence plays a significant role in creating meaningful conversations. It involves understanding and managing our own emotions and empathizing with others. People with high emotional intelligence can navigate sensitive topics and disagreements in conversations with poise, leading to more engaging and productive discussions.

### Encouraging Intellectual Curiosity in Education

Our education systems can play a significant role in solving the problem. Schools and universities could encourage intellectual curiosity and critical thinking, equipping students with the tools to engage in deep and meaningful conversations.

### The Power of Storytelling

Storytelling is a potent tool for enriching conversations. Sharing personal experiences and anecdotes brings conversations to life, providing insights into our personalities, values, and worldviews. Encouraging storytelling in our everyday dialogues can make them more engaging and meaningful.

## Conclusion

The looming shortage of interesting shit to talk about is a concern, but it isn't insurmountable. By understanding the causes and implementing the remedies, we can ensure that our conversations remain vibrant, engaging, and meaningful. The power to enrich our conversations lies within each one of us. By embracing this responsibility, we can create a world where interesting dialogues are the norm, not the exception.

Natural consequence of materialism. The loss of common ground in deeper topics because of the dominance of the ego in everyone's thought process.

Right, it's very mono cultural here.

Fiat life style

If you live like this, get help.

Even if the scene is a bit artistic, you really have to appreciate Bruce Lee's fighting style.

Watch his shoulders when he punches, especially from minute 2:38. They give no foreshadowing about the coming punch. His fists and forearms move first, then his shoulder, if at all. That makes it so fast and unpredictable.

You have to train that, which is not easy. Because most fighters move their shoulders first. You must keep the whole arm loose until the moment of impact to make it as fast as possible. And only in the last nanosecond the fist and the whole arm is tightened.

https://m.primal.net/HHrb.mp4

Good and easy to understand explanation of relays.

nostr:naddr1qq2ksezztgcyjkt6f4chg3zed3chqwrftym5jq3qlqs30x7466guvx6r2cek8z9d4hpucycy7j08wx58cwx70m206q3qxpqqqp65w2xx4vt

The dark social media ages have begun.

Memories of bulletin board systems come flooding back. Those were happy times.

https://m.primal.net/HHeJ.mp4

Good one, and interesting.

Yes, for the few geeks and nerds that are here. But mass adoption is still far away.

Yes speed is much better.

I'm a web developer and always looking for these types of nice videos that can be used as a background. But they need to be seamlessly repeatable.

Film that a bit slower and make it loopable then these kind of videos could perfectly be used as a website background.

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Iris now supports secret chats that don't leak metadata, implementing the https://hrfbounties.org/ bounty #3. It works also for group messaging.

It's a quick & dirty solution, but works. A shared nostr account is created for the secret chat / group. Its nsec can be shared via link, qr code or invite message from a single-use anonymous account.

Users can then communicate using the shared account's messages-to-self. Iris signs the inner messages with your own key, but the arrangement could be used for anonymous group messaging as well.

I'll also add inner message encryption at some point, so you can ensure that only certain group participants can read the message.

This arrangement doesn't introduce any new event kinds and works also in clients that haven't implemented a special UX for it. You can just log in with the nsec and message yourself.

I had to disable the Iris social graph filter to let invites through, so now Iris DMs are open to spam again, but I'll try to figure out a better solution.

As always, the UX needs a lot of attention, but I believe here's an MVP.

Screenshots:

Alice wants to message Bob:

Alice sends a secret chat invite to Bob:

Bob automatically follows the invite from Alice. They can now message each other in the secret chat:

Here's how the invite looks in another client. I will add an "nostr:ninvite" URI in addition to the nsec.

🤌👍

nostr:note1v0w9hv2w3azl7tznszl9vgtkg5x6jj4reg5agppphhx0at0wduys0fyf33

That's right, read the thread.

Top lists on social media are a flawed concept anyway. They're not only open to manipulation, as in this case. Besides, they only reinforce the posts that are already popular anyway.

In addition, there is the misconception that popularity, measured by demographic preferences, is a measure of quality. It's not.

It's only the average of the comprehension of the respective population, in some respects even the intellectual lowest common denominator, if you will. No wonder that mostly stupid, unsubstantial, simple sayings and meat trends.

However, it's not conducive to discover good content, as some believe. Such lists reward mediocrity, not quality.