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Clear and concise. Feels like I’m watching you line up at the first tee, telling me this, then smashing a 350 yard drive.

You just received $100,000 that you want to put into bitcoin.

You currently have 0 bitcoin. You have an income under $40,000. You are 30 years old and don’t own anything.

What’s your strategy to get the most BTC for your $$$?

When are we making a national P2P physical meeting place? The mall of Bitcoin.

There needs to be a place to consistently do non-KYC exchange.

I’m going to be surprised if we make it to $150,000

I believe you can make a multi sig that will become a single sig after a time lock if you want

I would consider it a compliment.

Most people involved are men. Men tend to romanticize being a part of something bigger, become a legacy or symbol. It’s like a fantasy. Women tend to work toward this individualism that you are talking about.

Journeys of growth

Men individual->collective

Women collective->individual

I say all this, because it may be a compliment. It isn’t trying to put you in a box as much as it is trying to say that you are an individual that has joined something. Like when guys call someone a Marine instead of their name. It’s like an acknowledgement that you are a part of the effort.

also people just compartmentalize everything so who knows, maybe I’m completely wrong.

Most people cannot value someone based on their productivity/creativity. They are unconsciously valuing them based on their appearance and status. It is very hard to escape the box that you get sorted into, most times.

I think most people face so much insecurity, that this is a natural consequence. It’s why the average manager can be bothered by their own employees that are seen as “better” than them. The resentment builds, and the consequences come.

Rockstar is right about aligning the incentives, but that is a rare opportunity. Many people do not have the power to enforce their side of the negotiation. You don’t get a day in court to prove that people are giving you negative feedback or ignoring your successes to keep you in your place.

yes, we can leave… but life is short. TGFB.

If you don’t like what I’m saying… maybe it’s because it is true. It’s a very unfair world, and I am thankful for the opportunities NOSTR and Bitcoin have given me.

Replying to Avatar UNCLE ROCKSTAR

In defense of developer depression:

Reflecting on my journey in Bitcoin over the last decade, I've come to realize that I've achieved success where a lot of other developers have failed.

Ironically, one of the biggest issues I'm still dealing with is that I may have succeeded too much. As a developer, you must understand that unfortunately, most people you’ll end up working with will not want you to succeed. The majority will simply want you to code what is needed for their success… and then go away. Disappear.

The core problem for you is that creating anything great requires deep coding focus for extended periods. You also need to constantly iterate on the product while ensuring it gains traction. Many developers mistakenly believe they can do both.

The hard truth is that you shouldn’t be doing this. You shouldn’t have to choose which part to handicap – your developer skills or the reach of the product you’re building.

Don’t fall for the false dilemma. Instead, find trusted collaborators who allow you to stay in a state of deep focus. Look for people who, once you create something that generates enormous amounts of value, won’t take your contributions for granted or betray you by claiming all the rewards for themselves.

My own immense success… it’s depressing to know that it had more to do with other people than myself. Yes, of course, I worked hard for it. I honed my craft for over 25 years. Studied computer science and led engineering at numerous startups. Stayed humble, while churning out commits for decades. But every time it came down to the wire, none of that mattered. What truly mattered was whether certain people recognized my contributions and stood up for my proof of work… or not.

So, if you are a developer – knowing that even in best-case scenarios you’ll depend on the goodwill of others is soul-crushing. You absolutely should be depressed.

But then recognize that the way out of that depression is through long-term commitments with others who resonate with the coding journey you’re on. Only surround yourself with trustworthy people. There is a reason that 4-year vesting schedules are standard in startups. For you and your code to truly succeed - you have to be part of long-term efforts with significant upside.

Anything less – and you’re setting yourself up for failure. You don’t want to create a routine where you daily force yourself into states of deep focus, only to see that after a couple of years of building, you’re defeated by an inferior product that has better marketers at the helm. You also don’t want to lose your technical competency in building political and promotion skills… this world needs more developers, not more politicians.

Observe your depression, but don’t succumb to it. In most cases, it correlates with how deeply you care about your craft. It’s a hint – that the way forward is with others. So, don’t fight your feelings, but follow them to find trusted collaborators who will help you realize the best version of the product you’re coding.

This isn’t just a developer issue.

It’s hard to find what you are describing. It’s a dog eat dog world out there.