I have have two different friends that went through this process. Took some time but they both found the perfect match! Once the up front stuff is figured out, it’s like, here’s a baby, see ya ✌️ Not much different than the other way 😂
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Haha yeah and I would selfishly want a baby so I could really be mommy, but I’m open to toddlers/kids
One of the couples who adopted, while going through all the trials and such did the IVF stuff. They recently found a surrogate, who is actually a good friend of theirs. Now they’re expecting twins in a few months. It’s wild to watch the journey, but also incredible that medicine has come so far.
Ugh the pressure and cost of all those treatments to end up going with a surrogate is stressful though. That’s why I think I would rather just go straight to adoption and spare myself the letdowns