You would think women would be eager to find out what straight men find attractive, but they're usually horrified by it.
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Giving birth to a lot of children? Raising them up and building the foundation of a future dynasty / clan?
It's a big project, but "horrifying"? IDK
I think that's too low of a bar, to be honest.
I think you can give birth to his children and also try to look feminine and appealing.
TBH, giving birth to lots of children will give you big natural milkers anyway, that's half of the rent if you weren't already an ugly cave goblin before that
True.
Well, and don't totally blimp out or get really scrawny, and wear something with a fitted waist. Maybe grow your hair out and dress up a bit on Sundays.
That sounds very low-investment, but it's probably enough to upset most women.
Honestly, this is such a low hanging fruit.
Want to know what REALLY upsets people?
MEN DRESSING NOT LIKE A TEENAGER.
The idea that men would find some things attractive over other things implies there are expectations, a standard, that needs to be met. This is a horrifying prospect for those raised by the idea that they will be "loved for who they are".
Just one of the symptoms of people raising their children with magical thinking.
Yeah.
I once made the mistake of suggesting that someone grow her hair out a bit, after she mentioned that her husband missed her long hair, and she was livid.
She will wear her hair how she wants to.
And her husband will like it.
Basta.
Okaaaaaayyyyy...
And how are they doing now?
They're fine, I guess. I've actually never seen him, tho.
She's much older than me.
And growing her hair was... difficult? Or she just didn't like the prospect of maintenance?
Well, I'm sure their relationship is fine if they've been together for a while.
There's just an age around 40 or 50 where women all crop their hair. Just like they all wear only pants.
Most women orient themselves exclusively on other women (and trans/effemjnate men because they mimic women). I just didn't realize that because I'm not in any girl clique. I have girlfriends, but we're a collection of girl-outsiders, so it's an unusual dynamic.
Most women are part of some female herd.
My suggestion was intended to help her have a relationship that is more than merely "fine", but I've discovered a lot of women don't want that. If they want romance, they get a new lover. And they're ALWAYS willing to grow their hair out and wear sexier clothes, for the new guy.
A high IQ, because intelligence is attractive.
A woman who doesn't need to flaunt her body for attention.
One who doesn't wear makeup, fake eyelashes or fake brows, yet is still pleasant to look at.
She is kind to people and animals, and loves spending time out in nature.
Ladies: a caveat.
When he says he "doesn't like makeup", it translates to he "doesn't like makeup he can see".
Be careful with this one because it sounds romantic, but taking it too literally will make him find you less attractive. Men can't see subtle makeup.
Not true. I don't like makeup or fakeness at all.
I like God given natural beauty.
Makeup products are also horrible for the skin, as well as bad for the environment, and abusive to the animals they are often tested on.
Furthermore I don't ever say anything to sound romantic. Honesty is way more important to me than any notion of being romantic.
You sound like you don't like women very much, to be honest.
You seem angry that I called you out on making wrong assumptions about my words.
INo, I've just been getting comments in this vein from you and they're devoid of empathy for the female of the species.
You're joyless, which is why you reject the idea of a woman trying to look prettier for you. You think it's frivolous.
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Okay, I've muted you and all of your alts, including the one with the PfP that we all associate with someone else.
That is super creepy, but you do you... someplace else.
So, I assume she shouldn't pluck her eyebrows, moisturize her hands, trim her toenails, shave her legs, or brush her hair, either?
Human women are not born with a brush in hand!
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Womens' appearance is mostly driven by what other women dictate, so suggesting women respond to something their husbands desires is such a radical break from their way they live their life that they can't emotionally handle the thought.
When men want women to care about what they think, they go to a prostitute, real or imagined. The author is pleading for us to stop sending our men to prostitutes, basically, because large swathes of men are deciding they prefer prostitutes and it's going to cause us to go instinct.