I can be handy around the house, I cook, do groceries, have a job that allows me a great deal of time flexibility I often use to accommodate last-minute changes (like a kid needing to go to the doctor, someone needs to be home for package delivery), can stand up to her mother (although she did that just yesterday on her own, I should write about that later today, it was pretty badass), we have quite open communication and generally try to be a good father. You would think that the last two points are no-brainers, but it turns out that doing these two things automatically puts you ahead of the average, at least judging by relationships in our sphere.