Think nothing ill of it. They’ve not yet learned restraint, but women have helped each other raise kids in village after village across cultures across thousands of years. So, they’re just trying to participate in what comes naturally to them. The rub is that it’s just a bunch of different personalities and tactics that they are going to share, and without invitation. They are likely all well-intentioned, just out of line. Not easy to take, I’m sure. My wife got good at shaking it off. Not sure if she got good at avoiding it altogether, though.
I’m glad I’m not the only one! I think at this point I’m ready for more, bring it on 🤣 In the times it’s happened, midway though the conversation the person giving the advice started to get really self conscious. I could see them rethink their decision to start a conversation 😆
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