Chime in... what are your #dating red flags?

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Skinny arms. No butt muscle. Smoking/vaping. Gets sloppy drunk more than once a decade. Facial tats/piercings. Dyes hair (especially bad if bleach blonde is a permanent state of mind). Impractical nails. Does not like puns. Does not like pickled things. Vegan/vegetarian (under nearly all circumstances). Carries significant debt, especially if related to a friggin useless degree. Is in worse shape physically or mentally than I. Does not return carts to the proper place after unloading. Is not willing to go hiking, camping, shooting, fishing, etc. Does not want to garden. It's not willing to help build a house into a home. Does not like the woods. Is not willing to regularly go to church. Is not kind to children, elders, random cats and dogs.

And I probably could go on, but, that's quite a list already.

Now that is a LIST! Slim pickings out there 🥴

Yes, but, after a divorce, I'd rather be pickier, but gosh, being lonely SUCKS! (And not in the fun way.)

I do agree

Where is your list? Inquiring minds want to know!

To name a few... Isn't willing to compromise should compromise be necessary, unkind to ppl in lesser position than him (disrespectful), rude to customer service people, unreliable, not able to commit to anything, manipulative, unaccountable, superficial, poor communication, hasn't dealt with past traumas, short temper, lazy, lacks emotional intelligence, doesn't have boundaries, financially illiterate, non adventurous, lacks ambition, asks things of me they are unwilling to give themselves... my list is more on character versus looks because that's fleeting. We will all be old at some point and looks fade. I need to be able to have more beyond physicality with someone.

That's also an excellent list. Good that you know!

will you compromise on your first one?

🤣🤣 I see what you did there, very clever! But NO, compromise IF necessary lmaoooo. THAT WAS TOO GOOD!

nostr:npub1vyrx2prp0mne8pczrcvv38ahn5wahsl8hlceeu3f3aqyvmu8zh5s7kfy55 is always good for some high level humor and intellectually stimulating conversations.

I see. Will you be using the CTRC (U.N. Charter on Topics which Require Compromise) or drawing from another list?

Another list, the one he and I create 🤣

“it was at this moment, she sensed she was being led into a trap…”

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all joking aside, i agree with you about compromise. IMO, giving your partner final veto power goes along way in building trust. especially if youre willing to do it even when you dont agree. The only caveat being it works best when its not used often 🤓

I do agree with this!

She doesn't know about #Bitcoin 🤣

Nah but red flag is delusion within mins of a convo. She will most likely contradict herself.

#bitcoin

lack of communication

That's a big one

No sense of humor

Humor makes a bad situation better