My ex: Do I get to keep thosr green paintings you did for me.

Me: I thought you didn't want them. You gave them back. So I gave them to a buddy. (True)

Ex: 😭 I thought you made them for me? And people say things they don't mean when they're upset.

Me: Yeah well I was upset you returned a gift, that I worked on!

Nostriches. What is the best path? Return the paintings to her? Or let my buddy keep them?

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Her loss. Let buddy keep them.

I say let your buddy keep them. She rejected them once, he hasn't so looks like he's more worthy of having them

Can't take it away from your friend lol, suuurely. She can buy a new one? Or make her a new one? Depends if you actually like her lol

Her loss. I will not paint for her again.

Either way, I'm sorry to hear this is going on. Heart issues can be...hellish.

Accurate.

She already returned them. Move on.

Bad form to return a gift. Let the buddy keep them

Keep door closed, buddy keeps

They are your buddies’ now.

Let that be a lesson: don’t say things you don’t mean, we aren’t 4 year olds anymore.

Remove contact, you’re still simping - this shouldn’t even a question.

No way I'm simping.

I'm closing doors. She still has stuff here.

Life isn't easy, so compassion.

Ah, fair. Well, the other point still stands, this is squarely your buddies

Shii I wouldn’t even take the time to respond

Thanks for that!

Buddy for the win

Let your buddy keep them

Learning lesson for your ex. (She still has feelings for you it seems)

This is true.

But when a person keeps saying that they are done, storms off, makes a scene, a person grows weary of it. She pulled this stunt over the course of the relationship at least three times.

Any kids with said ex?

None. We are close to 50. Spent a year together.

Then this one is easy. They belong to your buddy!

If so that’s be the only reason I’d even remotely consider. Otherwise a returned gift no longer belongs to the recipient.

Very good point.

šŸ’Æ Buddy should keep them

Also šŸ«‚šŸ«‚šŸ«‚ for the situation

Many thanks!

what a bunch of non sense. some people love to keep shit going. stay strong bro, you know what to do

Bros before hoes

let your buddy keep it dont be an indian giver

Say what you mean, and mean what you say.

Tell your buddy to enjoy his new paintings.

My buddy needs that green paintings so hard! Let him keep it!

It is an option to do another one for her, with your actual ex feelings…

Fuck that bitch