GM

A lot of people aren’t going to like this post but it’s my true reflections

I have spent the past 1.5 weeks dating what people call “normie” men

Here are the problems:

1) these men actually cannot pay their bills which I do not judge but I do judge when they seem jealous of my financial situation and yet shit on bitcoin in the next sentence

2) they appear hopeless and then shit on my parade when I am full of hope and faith about the future (particularly for artists)

3) they do not give a fuck about my art or my code which is fine but they want me to care about their video games or their weekend basketball meet up with their buds (I do care but they don’t - this feels imbalanced)

4) they don’t seem to take me seriously when I express my political beliefs despite their inability to tell me anything about history or monetary policy (and they wonder why they can’t pay their bills)

5) if there was an intruder in our home one day, I am almost certain I am the one who would be going to check out the scene

6) once these things become deeply obvious, it’s almost like they start being mean to me and it feels like they try to talk me out of what I know is my personal destiny in life

This is low t energy and I don’t think that they eat enough steak but I think that’s because they are subsisting on chips and crackers due to their inability to pay for meals

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*meow*

most men are selfish (which is the common denominator in each point you made) :3

masculine appeal is lost when his energy is directed inward

Dating outside the cult is wild tho 🤣

😂😂😂 this was the best way to put this yes hahaha

🤣🤣🤣💀

Unequally yoked with an unbeliever lol

🗒️✍️😳 so this is a cult

Haha yes we are definitely a cult

somebody call 9-1-1

shawty fire burning on the dance floor, whoa

😂🫂

Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behavior is a sign of suffering rather than malice.

I do believe this- but I feel the level of compassion I extend to them when it is obvious they are suffering (without overtly shoving an orange pill down their throat) and the way I try to gently show them that there IS A BETTER WAY by introducing them to my lifestyle and then they still shit on it… the compassion runs thin

At some level, the orange pill is a little bit of an iq test. No? Either ask good questions or debunk the idea. There are no middle grounds.

Did you really expect anything otherwise?

I was really hopeful and genuinely giving it my best shot 🤷🏼‍♀️

GM

GM ☕️:)

I hate this for you and all I can say is don’t waste your time with these losers. And maybe consider moving…

I would but I rlly rlly love Chicago too :/

Ah. There are tons of men in Chicago, carry on. I found my ex husband there. 🤣

😂😂😂😂😂

We woulda made a great couple.

Doesn’t care about my art = immediate uninstall

Oh, I wish you find a nice maxi soon

🫂

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Damn, reading this makes me feel like a catch. The bar has been set and it is low

#Based af 🍻

/hat.

Sounds par for the course especially in a city.

I met my wife while I was sleeping in a storefront so I don't think I have any useful tips. Other than maybe give room for serendipity to do its thing.

Jack Mallers is taken but he's proof not all men in Chicago match this heuristic.

Haha! I get the feeling I’m more of a”Madex type” than a “Mallers type” anyway 😂 no hate on Mallers, big fan of investing into Chicago and putting it on the map as a bitcoin city

I could see that. Jack's very left brained. Smart guy, but y'all do seem on a different wavelength.

Just saying, there are meat eaters in Chicago :-).

ty for sharing your observations. it sounds like you found an incompatible match. But I am rooting for you in finding your match. Sometimes he comes in an unexpected time esp when you least expect it. 🫂

You got this 👌🙏☺️

🫂 thanks lady Mae :)

you're very much welcome ☺️

How is someone who can't pay bills or pay for dinner a "normie"? I thought normies were people with normal jobs and conventional lives but who were just not into bitcoin. These sound more like people in a very low socio-economic group.

Maybe also true but sometimes feels like even people with great jobs in the US are paying for everything with credit

Gotta get the points 😄

That was previous generations.

Sooo true

In cities especially. Rent has gone parabolic since COVID. Eat, live indoors, have Internet. Pick 2.

You're too based for everyone, but you want to pull someone up to your level instead of ruling everyone out. I like that about you.

Thank you for posting on nostr every day. Today was a long and stressful day and having posts to read from you is more of something to look forward to than I can admit (I just did admit it but that's a policy violation)

Nostr is a good place to post daily :) I hope that your stressful day eases up… winter blues are always tough too. Mostly because there are less bugs to save

Harden up. Pay your bills. Eat steak.

Not everyone is worth your time. I don’t relate to most people IRL. They just give you the fluoride stare and continue whatever NPC thought they have. Let normies be NPCs they will have fun staying poor. Elevate and educate the ones that seek Bitcoin. Not everyone will make it. Only the strong survive.