Friend, I think you've entirely missed the memo...
There's a huge difference between doing "whatever you want" like a teenager and doing whatever is right, no matter what.
The entire purpose of bitcoin and nostr is to be DIVORCED from the state, not vulnerable to their arbitrary control.
If anything, we desperately need more "Wild West" attitude, along with refining and hardening our wallets, signers, and other tools.
The entire point of the bitcoin ethos is to make the state irrelevant, completely impotent, and utterly unable to stop anyone from voluntary, peer to peer transactions and communication, or to steal any value from a transaction.