This right here makes me want to get off #Nostr 😫

This right here makes me want to get off #Nostr 😫

Get off nostr dms if it bothers you.
Just change your inbox relay for one that's private
Oh? This is possible? Any resources on how to do this?
It’s a snooper bot to remind us all that while Nostr DMs are encrypted at the content level (no one can see your messages), they are open at the metadata level - i.e. who is DMing who and when. Definitely an area where improvement is needed. Or, when DMing you can seek to move the convo to some other platform as quickly as possible.
this is from coracle. its a different NIP. nostr:npub10npj3gydmv40m70ehemmal6vsdyfl7tewgvz043g54p0x23y0s8qzztl5h showed it to me

I agree with Coracle - if you want privacy (and you should) then take steps to independently ensure your own privacy (SimpleX is a great choice).
Don't wait for someone else to do it (e.g. coding it into Nostr). Nostr will get better (I'm sure) but regardless, each person needs to take ownership of their own lives.
(And assume that virtually everything that you publish online is at some level discoverable).
Nah, just change your client. Amethyst doesn't cause this.