It’s not always easy. Like a lot of people have the don’t give a fuck attitude. I don’t have that yet. It’s hard to end relationships. It’s also tempting to people-please, which I’m still working on
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So long as their lack of fucksgiving comes from a place of strength, such as being comfortable with who they are. What I see most of the time is that it comes from nihilism or a desperate attempt to look hard, and I don't envy those people at all. The latter is a facade and the former takes time to cultivate
I'm still shedding some people-pleasing tendencies myself. I used to strive for being as likable as can be, but eventually I realized that I have expensive taste in people lol. Easier to be myself and let that serve as a filter. Can't put a price on serenity
Yeah it’s weird. The older I get, the more I realize I have to get more comfortable with the idea of some people not liking me. No ass licking or apologizing attached 😂