You don’t need anyone else.
You just need to believe in yourself.
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the main reason i ended mediocte relationship in spring and actively not looking for a partner, focusing only on myself
not sure what “focusing only on myself” entails.
depending on how that unpacks, could be devastatingly harmful or somewhat beneficial.
Worth reflecting on, imo
how come devastating?
if one retreats into some atomistic solipsism, that runs contrary to human nature, detaching you from reality. distorts one’s conception of self, others, and the world.
any proclaimed “enlightenment” coming from that is disordered in the same way an annorexic person would say their eating habits have made them healthy.
but if you just mean, “hey i’m going to make sure I double down on going to the gym, getting sleep, not doom scrolling etc,” then those are good things but won’t bring about fulfillment in themselves.
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Once you master this the anyone else will need you
Trust you
Thank you sifu.
Apparently "you" need me to contact "you" on WhatsApp. Totally legit right?? 😉😂
I rarely disagree with your takes but I disagree with this one. I need my family to believe in me or I’m nothing.
Have you ever wondered how much more you could do for your family if you didn’t need them to believe in you? If you just put the whole burden on your back? Not saying this is correct, just asking you to think about it as a thought exercise.
The original post splits nuance down the middle.
If others, like your family don’t beleive in, it doesn’t matter.
Success isn’t contingent upon other’s belief in you.
And yet simply saying you don’t need anything but belief in yourself is solipsism.
Perhaps “belief” is the trouble word, cause it’s just a passive state.
“Just do things” gets at the heart of it.
Maybe some beliefs are more helpful than others, and support can be helpful, but at the end of the day ‘it don’t make a fuck.’
Just go crush.
Funny you mention solipsism. nostr:npub1rtlqca8r6auyaw5n5h3l5422dm4sry5dzfee4696fqe8s6qgudks7djtfs does seem like a solipsist; he's kept me muted, gaslit me, and promoted the gangstalking that I'm targeted with on here, simply because I once tried to tell him he should try thinking in real terms, while he already had me muted for being more honest than he can handle.
He's really just against truth in general
And he posts the exact same gaslighting rephrased in different ways again and again, here's this same thread but with different phrasing 6 days ago
Until you realize that you're inherently flawed, and your own reasoning and ideas will always steer you wrong. Pride blinds is and gets in the way of true growth. The fact is we do need someone else. A divine savior. The only way we realize this is His intervention in our lives and the revelation of truth. Aka a miracle #ChristAlone
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Always need a reminder 🫂🤞🏼
I kinda need Digit.
There are also people on nostr I kinda need to keep being here at least sometimes.
You're a little bitch who has me muted and can't handle admitting you need anyone.