I'm so underwhelmed with the Hinge dating app. Going to delete tomorrow at midnight.

From here in out, I will make a concerted effort to leave my apartment (at least 2x/week ....is that enough?), and make eye contact with people who I find attractive. I will not be shy.

So mote it be.

#DontWannaBeSpinstr

#Datstr

#2025goals

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Just googled that... Thanks πŸ™πŸ«‚

Go to church

Are you making a moral judgment here? Or suggesting I will meet better quality men at church?

the later i think. alot of single men there. unfortunately, that is a crap shoot as well.

perhaps a cute tshirt that says β€œim single if you aren’t married or retarded”

No. People should go to church for worship, not to find a mate. Far too many young men have been led astray by a pretty face. This is bad advice in this context--not for OP, but for your brothers.

A high view of the church is a good thing. We're earthy beings and we lack community, but don't go adding a sex market to the Lord's day. There are other ways.

I meant its a good way to meet a healthy community and go from there. But i hear what you're saying

I hear you. It's a really common sentiment. I used to say the same.

Reading Rev. Wurmbrand’s Underground Church series (VOM) changed my viewpoint. I don't agree with a good chunk of what he says but there is some real gold there.

Last time I used dating apps I was so disgusted by them. But if you are patient and weave through the bs I’ve found some very strong connection through online dating. Good luck and be safe.πŸ«‚πŸ»πŸ™

Ive been on since August. I met one guy who I felt very connected to, but he kept calling me a look bc I thought covid was a conspiracy and didn't hate orange man.

I'm older (61) and not into dogs (allergic). Most of the fit active men come with dogs. So thats the main issue. Always has been.

*kook. I gotta proof Read πŸ˜”

Aw! I love this. Leaving your apt two times a week is a great goal if you don’t go out at all now. Yes for the eye contact! And smiles!! πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ happy for you that you’re deleting Hinge!

I just started teaching a morning yoga class IRL so that gets me out of my apartment 2 days a week. So far only women are in the class.

I think I need to go out at night to some place other than the grocery store. πŸ˜‚

*hugs* rooting for you from #vancouver! you might just be the inspiration for me to leave my place 2x a week haha πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

πŸ«‚ thanks. Should we start a challenge? Instead of posting fitness achievements, we can post when we venture out. We just need a hashtag πŸ€” πŸ˜‚

Hmmmm lol let’s do it. I also haven’t been eating but I find if I’m out, I’ll eat socially. figured only good thing from this is #dieting

How about #onlinedatingnomore? Might be too long though. Ha #irlonly?

Thoughts?

This sounds like a good plan. We'll be nourishing ourselves on many levels.

What about #2days πŸ˜‚

#TwoDaysOutChallenge πŸ˜‚

I think I like #2days cuz it’s short but also perhaps adding #iykyk? 😝

I wonder if anyone will catch on…

Yes! In my neck of the woods I'm pretty isolated so when I go out I'm using this approach too πŸ‘Š

What part of the world you in?