I need help. Can someone teach me the real definition of Cuckolding? :O I was under the wrong impression apparently!
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It’s a BSDM fetish and lifestyle where the wife willingly fucks other men (the bull) with the husbands (the cuck) full knowledge and consent. It often involves voyerism and sometimes involves humiliation of the cuck like telling the cuck he has a small dick etc. (this is where the BDSM aspect comes into play). There’s more to it but that’s a snapshot
I thought it was when someone liked to watch their spouse/partner bang someone else
Wouldn't that be just being swingers? When I am "banged" lol by his friend(s) that's not cuckolding.
Your partner is not allowed to join I believe.
Oh so if he is not allowed to join... I see... so yeah we aren't cucolding then!
You're in an open relationship
Exactly.. hehe not cucolding
Whatever gets your rocks off, yalls relationship. As long as everyone's cumming then everyone's happy
I agree but no one mentioned if they are “allowed” to climax
I hope everyone is happy
Only when they are edging they aren't allowed hehe but otherwise there is no limits. Good point. Not allowing someone to cum would make them the cuck.
Friends don't let friends not cum, at some point there's gonna be a release. Whether its delayed that's their kink
When the guys not release and edge for a while they are able to produce huge loads. Like impressive amounts. Not letting them is part of the game as oppose to a way of diminishing their participation.
Well if you're gonna blow a load best to make it a big one. Your partner might be offended otherwise after all that work they did
ngl, he loves it when the loads are huge. I'm very petite so it makes the mess look even larger.
Is it morally superior to deprive oneself of indulgement of pleasure for the sake of pleasure?
Is it more moral to go sit outside naked and meditate?
Kind of yes
Kind of yes
But since your are not harming anyone there is no morality involved
As long as everyone is honest and they are happy with the situation. They are making moral choices.
I don't agree with your stance on morality though. I think there's an argument to be made that these activities while not causing harm do not always produce the best situation. If Gandhi or Mother Teresa took this lifestyle rather than the one they chose. it would not be as moral a choice as the world would be less off even if they were to receive more immediate pleasure.
Yes, I understand. I also agree.
It's a further refinement of being also aligned with purpose and dharma. Like a boddhisattva attitude
The goal is to maximize pleasure, we, as animals, want to weight immediate pleasure as being better in a time of uncertainty. Our lives are no longer as uncertain as those of our ancestors.
To delay instant gratification is to value the future more than the moment. It's my goal even if I don't achieve the desired outcome.
I'm not an animal
That isn't necessarily my goal. Pleasure is a childish pursuit. Oh yummy cwookies twaste gewd so I should eat them.
Self loathing is a clean burning fuel
Well this is natural... I think we all normally hold our orgasms. If that wasnt the case, men would be done in 2 minutes haha. Most experienced I have had the men take brakes and mvoe on to other tasks not just penetration to hold and last longer.
But Edging is literally going on for hours getting close to ti and not releasing.
sounds too risky 😮💨
Risky in which way?
I’m jk this is all above my sexual paygrade. I just have a wife, we sometimes do the dirty monogamously, the end
haha please do not think I was asking in a bad manner I was just curious. Perhaps there was muscular or other type of damage by edging haha
Do you guys watch porn or fantasize during sex?
Not sure what morality has to do with any of this hehe let alone sitting outside naked. As long as there is no offense then there is no issue.
Morality has to do with everything
Morality is a Schrodinger's Cat
No it isn't.
When people lack purpose they drown themselves in pleasure
Not true
Yes it is.
The inverse is also true. People endure nearly unfathomable levels of pain for a purpose. For meaning. Something real.
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These most be people living in the extremes then. I do not think I have ever met anyone that would be in these categories.
Extreme is your perception. It only says where you are.
Extreme compared in your opinion.
You think I am extreme? hehe maybe but not in that regards. Good conversation but I think we are running circles around a mute point.
I never said you were extreme or that I think so. I am a sexual deviant, so I'm not judging at all. I support your free will, and I love sexual freedom, and I've done what you're talking about.
but I know not to be controlled by pleasure.
There aren't circles.
🫂
But pain and pleasure are the same. They're all just variables in this. Not good or bad. Just a tell of the level one is at.