..... the feature you're asking for - its already available on https://honey.hivetalk.org (the beta) - not vanilla which is what the top level defaults to 😅

you can create lists from your follows and restrict rooms access to only npubs in a list. There is an active geyser fund here: https://geyser.fund/project/hivehoney

https://blossom.primal.net/f5059d79674d3dcd4cb69568b50a3bed3a0e3ef74891c904bab597444b3f5c5b.mp4

This is a beta, so if issues just nostr:nprofile1qyg8wumn8ghj7vf5xqhxvdm69e5k7qgkwaehxw309ashgmrpwvhxummnw3ezumrpdejqqg8j3z3zffsmwds648wyr2g2h29zml69gndshsuxw28x8zepmgte9ssnyydh or me so we can track it!