Which client are you using? Amethyst on Android only allows wss:// and not ws://
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That explains amethyst. Also not working with Iris
The Amethyst ws problem is reported here: https://github.com/vitorpamplona/amethyst/issues/91
I am running Amethyst and ws:// is working for me. 🤔
Oh I think I accidentally found a workaround. Use Iris to add the ws:// URL to your relay list and click "Save relays publicly." The relay should now appear in Amethyst with the correct ws:// prefix.
Thanks!
Oh, the irony!!
In order to use a 'private relay' it must connect in an insecure way.
Ty!