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Replying to Avatar Kip Ashlynn

*Heavy sigh*

Guys, don't over-text at the beginning of things. Less communication allows mystery, excitement, and anticipation to build. Once a day is nice, but until you develop a rapport keep communication light and in person.

I was on the fence but willing to give this guy a second chance. But already yesterday afternoon I was feeling meh about him and started giving one word responses. Then I just stopped responding. Since then he's told me about having old spaghetti for dinner, telling his daughter all about me, waxed poetic about how he never leaves the house... And it's not stopping. He's sending me random updates every hour or two.

I feel really bad but I'm not running a charity here and I don't feel excited about this second date so I'm going to cancel.

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Sam 3mo ago

In person is the only way to get to know someone. Texting is for quick check-ins/thinking of you and confirming times.

Honestly the advent of texting/messaging destroyed dating and correct behavior IMO.

Don’t feel bad.

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