Counted pros and cons, since getting it all is probably not even possible. And rationally decided getting calmer is a rather small price to pay for having good roots. It's the boring way. But so comfortable and calm.
Discussion
hmmm, maybe we can't have it all—maybe we can. how does a couple meld a bit of spice and excitement with that comfort and calm?
i'm not talking about cutting out of work early on a friday and hopping on a jet to a tokyo love hotel, but maybe just sneaking a piece of pie before eating at a dinner party. :P
Kudos for making that a conscious choice 👍