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I will marry a man who is generous with me—because love walks hand in hand with generosity.

I will marry a man who can face conflict without shutting down, someone who stays present when challenges arise.

Mature men don’t run from discomfort—they work through it.

I will marry a man who is empathetic—not just in words, but in actions. Because empathy without action is just performance.

I will marry a man who is emotionally available, not someone still entangled in stories from the past he never healed from.

Love only grows in healed soil.

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purrs_for_Her 6mo ago

i work every to be that man for Her.

because She deserves it.

and you do, too~! <333

🦊🔫🥩🏴‍☠️⚡ 6mo ago

I think men and women would both be better versions of themselves if they follow their nature - men are driven to protect, provide, and teach by example and action. That is how I show love. Emotional support and feelings validation is how women show love.

Thats why we need women to take care of our kids (and us when we need it. ) Men exist to provide the safety and resources that make that possible. Big government has attempted to take this role from men, while stealing their wealth to do it, the results of which are more apparent each year.

TLDR: a man who is "emotionaly available" won't be capable of providing the safe environment that a woman needs instinctually. A fixed point, a steady hand that takes actions that are necessary, even if it doesnt feel good. The qualities of a good man are similar to those that make a good leader. A level of empathy is necessary, but it can only guide your actions insofar as understanding the motives of the people under your command.

This is why hunting is far more popular among men than women. Empathising with another creature before you kill it is sometimes counterproductive. Yes men have empathy, but I beleive it is completely different from the feminine.