When you lose emotional attachment, you realise it was your love that made them special.
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Personally, I’ve never thought of anyone to be special, just compatible
I’ve never been overawed by anyone
I think special in this case means you’re willing to do a little extra for them.
Hmm. Maybe. Perhaps you care enough to spend time and effort on them
Yes, I most definitely do. My closest friends will tell you that.
You’re just a kind and lovely person. It’d be someone’s loss losing your friendship or love
My crush on you is because you are a fun, sensible, beautiful person, not because you’re “special”
😄 You always smack me in the face with this, mavs. I’m no one special. Maybe sane and reasonable is hard to come by these days?
You’re just so level-headed and easy to talk to. Trust me, my liking for you is a result of hundreds of your posts about people and relationships. You’re just beautiful and down to earth
Naturally curious person, I guess. I always have this need to understand even when it's probably not necessary or a good idea. It's hard not to care about people when you get to know them.
And that’s why I like you. I also have this need to “figure” things out so I can stay in control of my emotions
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I’ll leave you with this gorgeous Van Morrison song. That’s how calm and kind you come across as, hon
Enjoy a lovely evening
Pleasant evening, mavs. 🫂
This is how I feel about her, too 😆. 🫂💜
Is it because I'm kind of a female flavour of cheese? I'm a mountain goat cheese. 😄
Lmao 😂
Cheese is good
Possibly 😆. Or that you're just chill af, seem to be a genuinely decent human being, and fun to chat back and forth with ☺️
your love is special.
I want to believe that. I learned it at a young age that some love require nothing in exchange. Unconditional. It was given to me freely. I give it away freely but isn't understood or recognised.
there is a kind of love that chooses to see the good. and its belief in that good changes the person being loved.
i think you love like this. and its a gift to be on the receiving end.
its also never a mistake to give that love. even if they choose at some point not to receive it.
Emotional attachment aka love , is overrated .. most human advance is accomplished by commitment and dedication .. and the respect that these two attributes generate !
Perhaps but I don't think you can continue to create an accomplished human without it.
Quite the opposite - Accomplished humans get created when they get over their constant need for emotional connection !
Is this why my teenagers look like a bunch of retards all of a sudden?