Perfect is a myth.

Good enough is good enough. Iterate and improve. Get gooder every day.

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This, but as a valentines card. πŸ˜‚

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β€œYou’re not perfect, but you’ll do” πŸ˜‚

She’ll love it.

Do women want the honest truth or a sugar-coated bullshit?

I think, women want to see actions and results

Sugar coated truths

Male speculation:

They want sugar-coated bullshit, but they want you to be able to say it with a straight face, which means either you're deluded into believing it or you're a total psychopath (preferably the former)

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My dad has a saying he picked up from his time in the military: "Perfect is the enemy of good enough."

Exactly right - and I had that in mind when I typed my post in. πŸ‘

I had a similar mentality working as an engineer and now when making software. You can't have a "perfect" garden in this world.

The thing I've learned working professionally as a software developer is that everything is trade-offs. The best thing you can do is learn to recognize all the trade-offs so you can make the ones that appear most favorable.

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"Baby, you look good enough tonight" ... might backfire, just sayin... πŸ˜…

so you are saying that "damn, you actually look good today" isn't a compliment?! 😳

"Look good" and "Look good enough" are two very different messages 🀣

πŸ˜… - yesterday terrible; today actually good.

We are soooo getting ex-girlfriends here.

step 1) have a gf

step 2) three weeks later tell her she is good enough 🀣🀣

You all are brutal

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step 3) have a gf

wait

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"Babe, you're good enough. I'm so glad I settled for you."

🀣 " I found a high percentage of what I was looking for when I found you."

"The trade-offs I made when I married you were a decent compromise." πŸ˜‚

"Roses are red

Violets are blue

I accepted my lot in life

When I met you"

Gold

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