i'm low key mediating a divorce between two friends and my main take away is get a pre-nup
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This is not funny.
But yeah. I had to laugh. Just a little bit though. Haha.
it's a headache, man. figure out how you're gonna part ways while you're in love.
Oh. I believe. I've seen some pretty irrational behavior from some very rational people going through it.
Aww sad
I don't think it has to be. like my highest self wants this for your highest self in the event we must part ways. personally think it's beautiful to want to care for another human that hard.
I totally get that and have experienced that myself. But sadness is part of the genuine emotions, I'd assume.
I'm not saying sad as in anything that didn't last a life time is sad.
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Or just don’t get married…like hard pass going forward…
💯. If people are not willing to change and grow with their partners I’m not sure it can ever work. Over 13 years, my wife has been four different women, and I have loved every single one of them.
being willing to change is key. and just allowing people to be who they are. control is a drug.
love that for you and her. good man.
And being excited for the changes. I can’t wait to meet the woman I’m married to next.
I also married a woman who can’t be controlled, by anyone.
could you write a non-fiction novella please? 😂🫂💜 your wife sounds amazing 🥹
Well…..it could end up being a harlequin 😂
😂😂
Defiant princess leaves her kingdom for the love of a savage and a life of destitution and freedom….you know that sort of thing
Oh damn 🔥🔥🔥
You guys should write a book.
that's what i'm saying!!
Or just pieces wisdoms daily. We'll zap the crap out of it. 💖💖
yeah, we will! come on nostr:npub12rze589jx0gg6kslkjfl2gxxkhtlw73t5shyve5qrglrv6c2qflqejj7ns more wife and marriage wisdom!
😂 I don’t have all of the answers. I just ask questions and listen to her answers.
That's wisdom right there. How many people (cough cough, men 😆) don't listen first?
So awesome to hear.
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Auch! Complicated without it.