I think obedience is an underrated virtue today.
Of course, we ought not be obedient to wrongful authority. Perhaps the line that children must be taught to walk is to recognize right from wrong authority.
In general, though, it is good to subject ourselves even to others' wishes, so long as they do not conflict with reason or with other responsibilities, rather than to insist upon our own way.
Again, though, this all must be nuanced given the circumstances in which we live.